How do I make my boyfriend's dad forgive me?

Okayyy so the other night I snuck out of my house to go meet my boyfriend. I got to his house and I sat beside a car and was texting my boyfriend. all the sudden, he texts me saying his dad is awake and that I cant come in. I ask him if I can sneak through the window and as I was awaiting his reply…I heard someone come out the front door and start the car up in which I was sitting by. I got scared so I got up and ran behind a tree. his dad stopped the car and came out, thinking it was his other son (who snuck out). So I stepped aside the tree and he said “What are you doing here? Get the f*ck out of here, I’m calling the cops!” I said “No, please dont call them, im sorry I wont ever do it again!” and he said “just get out of here” , so I ran away from his house and back to my house. I feel sooo horrible and my boyfriend got grounded. I’ve only talked to his dad like once so I feel like I just gave the wrong impression :( what can I do to make his dad forgive me?

Answer #1

Apologize and admit what you were doing was wrong, then stop doing it. He may not forgive you, and doesn’t have to. Just consider yourself lucky he didn’t mistake you for a prowler or a burglar and shoot you full of holes! Don’t sneak onto other people ‘s property, ever!

Answer #2

Well seeing as how you are freely admitting that you snuck out of your house and were encouraging your boyfriend to do the same, I have to say that I can’t help but side with the dad on this one.

If you want to honestly patch things up then set a time to meet with his father and apologize for what you did and tried to get his son to do.

Answer #3

I think next time you see your boyfriend go to his house when you know his dad is home and sit down and talk to him. That’s what my ex did with my dad when my dad got the wrong impression from him.

good luck

Answer #4

You should be brutally honest with him. He will see the sincerity, and will eventually forgive you. I’m sure he has already chalked it up to kids being kids.

Answer #5

Just prove to him you are indeed a good person and that night you made a horriable mistake. And just prove to him (by not doing it) you are not going to do it again. Good luck to you ;)

Answer #6

just like go to his dad and tell him your sorry and start all over wish you the best =]

Answer #7

Lmao! That was the funniest story ever. you actually ran from the house? Lmao. Wow. Well you shud tell him what happened or tell your boyfriend to tell him.

Answer #8

Okay, it’s a bit long, but bear with me… I was staying at my ex’s house down in florida with his parents for a week. We weren’t allowed to stay in the same bed together, which is understandable. My last day there, no one was home except me and him. I had woken up early and tried to wake him up, but he sleeps like the dead. So I laid down next to him playing game boy and ended up falling asleep. His step mom came home and started freaking out. She called his father going nuts and screaming cursing. She was going to ground my ex. After she calmed down, I told her I understood why she was upset. I apologized to her and explained what had really happened and told her that I would never disrespect her house like that. She calmed down and actually thanked me for talking to her. She drove me to the airport and gave me a hug and said she couldn’t wait for me to stay there again.

I think you should talk with his dad. Tell him that you didn’t mean to disrespect him. I wouldn’t necessarily tell him that you were trying to get his son to sneak you inside. :) Tell him that you were upset about something and needed to see your boyfriend. Tell him that you know it was wrong and it will never happen again. Coming forward like that shows maturity and responsibility. Hopefully he will be understanding and forgive you. I hope it works out for you.

Answer #9

You’re right, not a good impression - all you can do is apologize, admit you were wrong to sneak out to be with his son - never happen again…Good luck !!

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