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How do I know if I am for sure ready to get fingered or give a blo

So me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 10 months and we love each other to death, but whenever we are together and alone he tries to go down my pants. I let him get all the way ther but when I think that he’s gona start fingering me I tell him to stop because I get nervous at the very last second. Honestly I realy want him to because htings like that would really improve our relationship and I tell him that I will let him but when it gets to that point I freak out. Also he wants me to go down on him and I want to do that too but I dont know what to do and he said he would help me and guide me throught it and stuff but I dont know how to approach it. I am a very shy person and I dont want to be when I am around him. I want to do all these things but when it gets to that point I always stop. please help me. *millee

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Answer #1

if you arent ready you arent ready! Dont try and force yourself and tell yourself you are ready when you know inside you really arent. Tell him explain to him yes you 2 will do things like that soon but for now you just dont want to. He should respect that aswell.

Answer #2

Just because shes 15 doesnt mean she cant have the same feelings as an adult, love isnt a meassure of age.

Answer #3

if it alright with you then left him go for and if you wanna give him a nice little blow go ahead and get-r-done!!!

Answer #4

Hi Millee,

I have had almost the same problem. I understand where you are coming from. You should talk to your boyfriend about how you feel. If he loves you like you love him he will understand and try to make the expieriance better and more comfortable for you. And your problem might also be that you simply arent ready. But if you seriously feel you are ready then your boyfriend should be comforting and help you along the way. Not everyone was born knowing exactly what to do in situations like this. He’ll understand if your shy and/or nervous. Good Luck!

Answer #5

ur Like 15 I doubt u Love eachother TO Death ur a Buncha Hicks

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