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How do I handle that my boyfriend is in jail?

In January my boyfriend went to jail. He might be getting out in May. I’ve done everything for him. I’ve gone to all his court dates, put money on my phone so we can talk, I write to him, send him pictures, visit him every week, put money on his books so he can buy things he need and I take clothes down to the jail house for him, so I mean everything. But last night he yelled at me over the phone. See he has epilepsy so he has to stay on the medical floor well last nite they moved him off the floor and they cant move his from medical. So he called me and I couldnt do anything because it was late and his lawyer wasnt in. So he started yelling at me and hung up on me. Than he called back and hour later and did it agian. When we do talk he sweet talks to me and tells me he loves me, misses me and he cant wait to get out. I really do love him. But he’s never acted this way towards me before. Can anyone please help me?

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Answer #1

ryan4to32char has a point - this does not sound like a healthy relationship at all. You are way too good for him, you deserve a nice, responsible man who respects you.

Answer #2

Leave him. I don’t care how much you love him. He’s not worth it in the long run. Don’t associate with people with records.

Answer #3

You just have to try and understand he is in jail…staring at four walls all day long. He’s probably just stressed out and you also have so much time to think in there so his thoughts are probably going crazy. It’s normal for people to feel irritated easily in jail. I doubt he means to hurt your feelings he probably is just on edge.

Answer #4

i agree. my botfriend is in jail too and we have had at least 3 arguments. he’s just stressed out completely. don’t take it personal. no one’s perfect

Answer #5

just write to him, put money on the phone if you can afford it because now it’s rough out here. support him. don’t just leave him. be smart about it though don’t jeopodize yourself.just do what you can

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