And yes, I'm clean and hairless before you ask.
So many people have this great fear of actually communicating with/ talking to their partners about issues like this. With this in mind, you do have a couple of options.
I would recommend that you actually discuss this with your partner. If he cares about you and he knows that you care about him, then you should have no reason to be shy about telling your boyfriend what you want. Sit down with him and talk to him about this issue and I'm sure he'll understand. If you happen to perform oral sex on him, then you are definitely not asking too much of him and he should definitely at least consider returning the favour :). Explain to him that you feel a bit guilty about asking, but you want him to know that you want to experience it with him and that you would really like it if he would at least try it with you.
That is of course just one of the options you have. The other option you have would be to imply that you want him to do it whilst you are already being physical together. You can gently push him downwards and that is a clear indication that you want him to go down on you. If you gently push on his shoulder or head he will at least know that you want him to do it and then he will have a choice to make. I think the trouble with this method is that it leave him with too much thinking to do all in such a short period of time. This could lead to you both losing 'the mood', him being uncertain and then doing a bad job of it, could lead to him getting a bit nervous, etc.
In saying all of this, I strongly recommend that you actually talk to your partner. It is always good to know whether a guy is comfortable with something before you start pressuring him to do it (and the door swings both ways). Take him somewhere quiet and talk to him about this. Let him know that you care about him and that this is something you really want to experience with him. There should be no shame in asking your partner for something of this nature. Let him know what you want and this will give him time to think and it will not put any unnecessary pressure on either of you. I hope that helps :)!
ask him.. lol if if shy keep talking about it and ask would her ever try it with you..
aask him to
