How to get my confidence back to give oral?

I got forced to give head to a 18yr old and I’m 15 I hated every minute of it I really didn’t want to do it and me and this other guy have been having sex lately and he wants me to give him head but everytime I tell him I will do it I just can’t because it reminds me of the time I got forced to. I did give head to this new guy when I was really drunk but he wants me to do it sober he said he understand and will never force me but I really dovwant to give him head while sober… Does anyone know how I can get my confidents back so I can do it, please I need help. X

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Answer #1

I’m really sorry to hear that you were forced to – I can imagine that it would make anyone feel extremely uncomfortable doing it again, even if it isn’t forced again.

With that being said, if you’re not comfortable doing it, I don’t think that you should right now. I can completely understand wanting to please your boyfriend, but if there are other ways you can please him and enjoy it as well, then those methods would be better until you feel better.

I believe that things like this take time and understanding. Just because you’re not okay with it now, it doesn’t mean that you won’t ever be. Take some time to work past what happened with the other guy. Ease into it. If you go for it but don’t feel okay with it, don’t force yourself. Forcing yourself will only make you feel like you did when you were forced by the other guy. So take it slow and back off if you need to.

Your boyfriend is being understanding, so don’t be too hard on yourself. It will be much more enjoyable to both of you when you feel comfortable with it too.

Answer #2

I would say to take it slow, get really turned on before you go there again and ask your boy to let you know that he appreciates it. The reason I do it, is because I know how much guys love it. Also put an icecube in your mouth, it makes him taste good, it’ll distract you and he’ll love it!

Answer #3

well if he isnt going to force you why even bother giving him head?

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