How do I convince my mom into letting me live with her again?

Well about a year ago my mom thought I wass doing weed and made me move with my dad. Even though I guess I sorta love my dad or what ever he is horrible. Im being told im fat as hell every five minutes, we live in the middle of nowhere and the school I go to is full of racist assholes. Im trying to convince my mom that I’ve changed. (which is true I swear.) but she keeps saying that her work wont let her and other excuses. I told her I really dont care and that its better than this. But she still wont listen and says that I should finish the year here. If I stay here any longer im going to go freakin insane.

Answer #1

Have her give you random drug test tell her your being honest with her. Let her know what your dad is putting you threw and tell her its causing you trouble in your life and your self confidence. No one should be treated like that. I would also talk to aschool counsoler for advice and let them know whats going on maybe they can even talk to your mom. Rate if I helped. Good luck!

Answer #2

I get it. kiss up to her if you get mad eat her cause she said NO it will be a PERMANENT NO

Answer #3

Some people give such horrible advice I swear. you can’t take your mother to court because she doesn’t want you living with her because then she really aint going to want you there and when you tell the judge what your father is putting you through then your more then likely going to end up in a children’s home or foster home.thats not something you want. So don’t listen to dumb advice like that please.

Telling your mother that your willing to take a drug test for her to prove that your not using is a good idea. Unless you don’t think that is really her concern. Try explaining to her that your father is making you very insecure about yourself because he continues to call you fat and stuff.Also explain to her that your a young girl and its hard not having your mother there to talk with you about your problems.You need to be with her. Tell her you will do your part around the house and you promise things will be better.If none of that works just continue being on your best behavior and proving yourself to her.Bring it up as much as possible in a nice way and just let her no that thats what you want really bad

If she continues to say no also you could try talking to your dad about that way he treats you let him know when he calls you names like that it hurts you in side and makes you feel down on your self just sit him down one night after work or school or whatever and say “Dad may I have a conversation with you please” Hopefully he says yes,or when he does decide hes ready for it tell him “you know I do like living with you,but sometimes when you call me fat and stuff it really hurts me because your my dad and your opinion means a lot to me,so do you think you could please stop doing it” im sure he will respect that a lot and stop!!

I sure hope things get better for you. If you need to talk you can feel free to talk to me ask me any questions you’d like.Good Luck im sure things will get better soon.If you have to just rough it out till the end of the school year till your mom said you can come back

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