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My boyfriend and I love each other. its been a few months now, and we want to wait 4 or 5 years to get married. im so afraid that we wont make it. ;(
If you're worried you won't make it, getting married isn't going to make it any easier. It will only add an enormous amount of stresses into your life that, frankly, a 14-year-old isn't emotionally prepared to deal with. Marriage is meant to cement already established relationships, not create stability out of thin air.
If you want to date someone, date them. Why is it necessary to get married?
WELL I've PERSONALLY BEEN WITH MY BOYFRIEND NERLY 3 YEARS , WEVE BEEN TOGETHER SINCE WE WERE JUST 16 AND WE ARE NOW NERLY 28 AND WERE AS HAPPY AS EVER, YOU CANT ASK FOR PEOPLES ADVICE ON THAT QUESTION BECOUSE NO BODY WILL KNOW WHAT WILL HAPPEN, JUST DONT WISH YOUR LIFE AWAY TO EARLY AND GROW UP TO QUICKLY, THAT WAS MY MISTAKE.
P.s... sorry about the caps, didnt realise they were like that :)
theres a 50/50 chance that your gona make it. if you truely truely love each other, it could. marrage isn't going to solve your problems. just see how it goes.
omfg I hate it when young people say they are in love... just wait I bet you will break up in less then 6 months, no offense.
your 14 years old? nope your not guna make it it never happens because u'll get bored with each other
if you are in love then it just might last but it doesn't usually work out that well