How come guys aren't interested in me?

im just like lonely. im 17 and have never been asked out or kissed or even told I was cute. I am pretty. im not like ugly at all. people, meaning other girls, im a girl btw, tell me im beautiful. I am in good shape. I have a nice body. I have blond curly hair. brown eyes. im nice, humble, musical. im a little on the short side, lol. im really funny and a great friend. but how can I be beautiful if noone has taken any interest in me?

I am pretty confident, but sometimes it gets to me. people would be shocked if they knew I dont think I am pretty. if I am so worthy, then why am I the only one alone!?!?

I just wish I knew what was wrong with me. I want a relationship. someone who likes me. oh and im really shy with guys. peoeple dont know im shy because im outgoing, but I have never talked to a guy other than friendship and that stuff. example, I could never ask one out. see, I did an experiment during spring break. there was a cute guy and he was alone and I thought I should go talk to him. test my skills, but I couldnt do it, it was too hard! I have to break out of my shell!

Answer #1

I used to have that problem then one day I got drunk at a friends party (his band was playing, all emo like they are) and I jumped up next to em and added my own bit of screamo to their emo, apparently everyone liked it, I don’t know I cant remember lol, but ever since then everyone has liked me a lot more for some reason, sounds dumb, I was always the crazy kid though so I don’t see what sparked the change, anyways I’m extremely outgoing, ill say the things everyone else is thinking and not give a crap.

BUT I was REALLY shy around people I liked, aka I didn’t know how to act, once the above happened I dunno it like gave me courage.

Find something you would be scared of doing and do it, it makes you feel like you can do anything Sorry for the story, a good story is the key to a good answer!

Answer #2

some guys are shy, and you’ll get there, I promise one day someone will tell you your pretty. I havent met you but I trust your word so I guess you are pretty

Answer #3

guys could be intimidated by you, and you say your shy around guys, so they could interpret that as you not liking them. but nothing is wrong with you, you probably just have bad luck like I do. don’t be thinkin somethin is wrong with you, I’ve been on a 1 year strike out streak, lol. And I started to think something was wrong with me, even though I knew nothing was. but it did hurt my confidence a little and I started to phyc myself out, you can do that. but I realized statistically speaking, that some people will just have bad luck. out of all the good looking, cool girls in the world, just because of the odds, don’t you think one of them won’t get asked out, that one girl could be you. no reason for it except statistics. well, thats the way I look at it anyway. because I can’t figure out why I can’t get a girl to like me when a couple years ago I had no problems. drop me a funmail if you want to talk more, I can relate

Answer #4

ya same for me I went up and sang blitzkreig bop by the ramones, I was scared to but I did it anyways, and people loved it, but I did not score any guys for some reason. although I wanted to I didnt. I got the same problem I dont know how to get a guy.

Answer #5

dont worry, your not alone there are a lot of other people who havent found who there looking for someday you will find a guy whos right for you, and loves you just the way you are but you need to be patient also, get out there more and meet some people try and expand your freinds circle, that way you can check out your freinds freinds, there brothers, and there guy freinds! but yeah, get out there more, and talk to some people its not that hard, just take a deep breath, walk up to them and start a conversation!

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