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My mother is crying because my sister who is 14 years of age. She got sent to the hospital because she starved herself for days and this moring she took like 4/5 diet pills in order to lose more weight and her chest was hurting a lot... She told us that she didn't mean to hurt herself she just wanted her weight off... She is not even fat she is like 5'0 or 5'1... 14 years of age and about 111pounds she thinks she is fat and my mother try to get her to eat but she don't want to now she is in the hospital can you please tell my mother that she did the right thing in taking her to the hospital she is crying now and it hurts me to see my mom and my sister go through a rough time... She think that she did wrong because my sister is going to hate her ...
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Its not your fault. my sisters been in and out of the hospital for multiple reasons for the past five years. im only sixteen. My mom has been very stressed out about it and cried a lot. First thing you need to remember is that you cant fix your sister. she needs help she has a problem. Yes shes going to be mad at your mom for putting her there but its where she needs to be. dont feel guilty. And your mom may just need some time alone. go to her and tell her how your feeling and she will probably open up to you. Just hug her and tell her everything will get better and remind her that your sister isnt in a good state of mind right now adn even if she does tell your mom she hates her, she doesnt. she will eventually thank her.
if you wanna talk more about it just message me (: I dotn judge. I've been through a lot.
If my kid was doing it, I'd lock her up. What your mother has to understand is that your sister is sick. She cannot decide what is good for herself, because she is sick. And that anger for your mother is coming from the sickness. When she gets better, she will get over that anger. But without that help, she may be happy with your mother but dead. And make no mistake, 20% of people with eating disorders die. 1 in 5. I wouldnt gamble my kids life with those odds. Your mom did the right thing. Right now she's terrified. And she's probably wondering if she didnt just make a big deal about nothing. She did the right thing, and she needs to talk to the doctors, they'll tell her she did the right thing.
I've been in your daughters situation. No, she wont be happy. Yet, eventually she will thnak you. I wont lie. It may take a long time, but keep watching her and keep doing what your doing. This could be the beginning of anorexia.
awww,You cant control her it isnt your fault! You just feel bad and think its your fault but it isnt .Im sure she wont hate you,you did the right thing at the right time. I hope your sister gets well soon :)
tell your sister to stop being a dumbass and go run instead of killing herself tell her the more fruits and healthy carbs you eat and burn quick the faster you'll lose fat [[experience= used to be bolimic]]
