How can I get my man to be more romantic?

I’ve been with my guy for a year and a half and sometimes I feel like he’s just in it for sex. How can I get him to be more romantic?

Answer #1

You wont be able to get him to do anything he doesnt want to do. Sorry :( But! You can try talking to him about some of the things he does do that make you feel special. One way to do this, is to ask him to do this with you. Each on your own,, Write I like it when: and give 10 answers to that question. I like it when: you surprise me etc.. Dont tell him any examples, look at what his responses are. It approaches a “tender subject” from a positive angle. The things you say to your “other” at this point can be very damaging,, so its important to build their confidence rather than telling them what their doing wrong, which destroys it. . When you see his answers to what he likes about what you do, youll see two things. 1. Are they all sexual,, is there more about you that he sees?? 2. What am I doing that makes him feel loved and secure. because the more secure he feels, the easier it will be for him to try new “romantic” approaches with you.

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