How do I explain to my man why it is important for him to preform oral sex on me....He has done it before....just not on me...he says...he just "dosent like it".... Aint that some shit!? What do I say to that?
Do you feel there is some reasons why he doesn't want to? Because like you said he has done it before, so there must reason he doesnt want to now? Maybe talk to him specificly what the issue is. Like do you shave, do you smell nice etc? I almost will not eat out a girl if they do not shave and smell nice... i cant stand getting pube hairs in my mouth... yuck. If the guy really truely loves you or cares about you then he will want to please you in the ways you want to be pleasured. Even if he doesn't like it, he should take an extra step and want to make you feel good.
In any case you could do 69 to start out on getting him to do oral. Make sure you wash down there with soap and water and some feminine smellys etc... maybe even use a douche.
Jason
He enjoys when I give him head & I actually do not mind because I know Im good at it & its something I can do to make him feel good.... But he just says he "dosent do that" Hes never even tried it with me before...& Ive never had N E complaints about my smell, taste, or lack of hair in other relationships SO, sometimes I think hes just being stubborn because he feels like if hes "sexin" me right then theres no need for me to want "that" I just feel like hes being immature & closed minded...I just need a new angle to come at him from...
Quit doing something he enjoys you performing sexually or in other areas of life, until he does his part on you.
maybe the chick before wasnt clean down there and smelt like shit so um.. talk to him talking is the key