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How can I get a boyfriend when I'm to scared to talk to guys?

I am extremly shy around guys. How can I become less shy around guys. I really want a boyfriend so how can I overcome my shyness.

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Answer #1

It could be that you just havn’t found good conversation starters and starting a conversation with a guy is hard and awkward for you. I suggest you go to the bookstore and buy a book on how talk to anyone, there’s a book called, “How to Talk to Anyone: 101 Little Communication Tricks for Big Success in Relationships” Get that if you really want to be able to talk to anybody. But yeah, if you try and start a conversation and you don’t have confidence in your words the attraction may not be there for the guy, simply because everyone is attracted to confidence bar none.
So, take a speech class, somehow get a boat load of confidence, probably through that book or public speaking classes and you’ll be all set. Or just talk to a guy friend, then talk to more guy friends and simply get used to the other gender; you may just being going through a weird @## phase.

Answer #2

I used to have the same issue. and I found out that its not that your shy around guys its just that you havent found the right boy to talk to. the whole idea of having a boyfriend is becuse yu both enjoy each others company and stuff. so if your shy around boys its not the right bo to be wanting as your boyfriend…

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