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I cant always see my boyfriend but I want to be able to keep him excited. I dont know how to get him to talk dirty with me. He likes when I do it. But he wont join me. How do I get him to talk too with out comming right out and saying it? Why isnt he talking dirty already I thought guys loved to do that?
Some guys do enjoy dirty or discriminating talk... however some guys, like myself actually, find it sorta embarassing if we are not used to it or if we grew up with the thought "Girls won't like you if you talk like that to them"... It could be that your boyfriend needs to get used to it first, and the only way he'll get used to it, is if you help him.
When you're talking dirty with him, then instead of waiting for him to say something, command him to say something dirty to you... you could start with telling him what to say to you. Keep going till he gives in a say it. Keep making him talk dirty and try trick him into think up something on his own.
If you still can't get him to talk dirty, you should probably consider that he might not find it comfortable, n' you should ask him about it.
I hope you could use my advice :)
