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How can I control my feelings?

Ok so im bi sexual and I’ve recently had a crush on a tutor , shes called lisa , But the worst thing is that I keep asking her for 5 minuets after each session , < thats every wednesday > And I share my personal problems with her. I dont want to seem like an attention seaker to her. And the more I talk to her the more I feel connected the more I want to tell her I think im inlove with her !! its soo strange , I dont know what its is how can I control these feelings and better still can you possibly love two people at once? x

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if your tutor is also bisexual and you suspect she likes you as well, then I think its ok to like, ask her out sometime to hangout (not as tutor-tutee) and then you may see from there if you’ll pursue a relationship with her.

I think people can love a lot of other people. In a supposedly exclusive relationship, a person may still have feelings for someone else but there’s only this 1 person they care about the most and would standout above the rest. Though you can love people at once, I think you cant love 2 or more persons EQUALLY. There’s always someone you love more than the other.

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