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How to tell parents your bi?
I saw the first answer and thought it was bullshit right away. don't listen to that "you're young" sh*t!!! listen to yourself. Only you really know who you are. I'm 14 and that doesn't matter. I realized I've had crushes on girls and guys my whole life and that's just the way it is. Be who you are! I emailed my parents about it and they took it really well because I was straightforward and mature about it. You could do the same, but only if you feel safe about it. Keep it to yourself if you think your parents wouldn't accept you. If they are religious they might try to change your "evil feelings".
I dont think you should, caus eas some others are saying it could only be a phaze, my friend was gay for about 2 years before he actually admitted it to me, and even then he found it really hard to tell his family, and the end they were fine with it buh they teased him a lot, as he has an older brother. problem is , I dont think hes actually gay anymore so just think about it before you tell them or else it could make this awkward further down the line xx
Just bring it up while your bonding and having a good conversation Because if you just said it when they were washing the dishes They would yell out ''WHAT!''Or if they are nice they would say''Oh sweetie that's fine'' But just do it when having a conversation and they'll just pause
that's awkward, lol my dad still doesn't know I am but I don't see him so it doesn't matter. first be sure your parents aren't like completely against gays because if they are hey might kick you out. but if their not, just tell them when their not stressed out or anything.
You're really young, I would wait... Not because it could be a phase (whatever the hell that means), but because you shouldnt label yourself at that age, and you're not emotionally or financially ready to deal with a worst case scenario...
Well I decided that after I get out of college that I'm going to tell my parents so just in case they don't like what they hear I won't be stuck with all the hastle of finding money to go.
im absolutely SURE this is not a phase im 16 YEARS OLD I know that I am attracted to BOTH MEN AND WOMEN not a PHASE what does that even mean that you are mentally RETARDED?
I say DONT.. because it might be just a faze you are going threw.. a lot of young people do think they are bi and 2 or 3 years down the line they relize they really arent..
I agree just like sit down with them and say you got summin to tell you ... and just tell it as it comes...
good luck x
you love who you love, how is it a phase.