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Well me and this girl has been dating for 11 months we were commited to eachother and promised eachother that we will always be together and get married someday. well one time when I went to her house me her and her parents were in the living room. she was drinking water and accidently spilled it in between her legs. she got extremly embrassed and her parents gave her a towel to cover her up. so while see was walking down to her room I was following her to calm her down. in about 1 minute later her parents came down to her room and was talking to her and told her she shouldnt get embrassed about that. so I left the room waiting for her parents to stop talking. then I saw them walking down the hall and I heard the door slam so I thought her parents must have said something mean. so I went down to her bed room and when I was opening the door her dad yelled at me and said " Dont open the door shes changing" my eyes did look in but she was just standing there with no changes of clothes. so that was the main story. the next day me and my mom came over cause my mom wanted to give kayla and her parents some shirts, everything seemed fine. but the next day my girl friend called me up and said her moms making us break up because her mom thought I was trying to see her undressed. I talk to her mom for about 2 mins and I told her that I was just trying to see if she was okay. but appartently she doesnt believe me. me and kayla got eachother promise rings about the 4 month we were dating. I've tried calling her home phone several times but no one answered. her parents probably hate me over something I wasnt trying to do. so 2 days later me and my mom went to her house to get my guitar back. it didnt really matter to me I just wanted to see her. we knew that her mom was home and we heard the tv going, we rang the door bell twice but no one answered. finally my girl friend opened the door and she looked horrible and depressed. she gave me my stuff. and right before I left I wishpered "I love you" and she wishpered "I love you too"
is it over?
how can I talk to her parents if they wont open the door to me or even answer my phone calls? I cant go to a friends house to do that cause once they know its me calling they will hang up.
please someone help me
You could try writting them a letter explaining your intentions and feeling for their daughter let them know that s..*x is not what is on your mind nor is looking at her un dressed..I think that may be their bigest concern parents tend to have a hard time letting their childern go especially the oldest ones or if they only have one child that one. You could sujest that the three of you go on "dates" together if theyare really worried may try and have your mom talk to them too and you could all work it out give them a break though two three days maybe a little longer depending on their moods, but don't give up on it if you really love this girl and are ment to be together you will be..It sounds like a good relationship I think and if you two have been together 11 months don't just throw it all away fight for it.. try different things talking i think is the best way to deal with it tell them you just wan them to know where you are coming from and where they are..let me know how it goes.
parents are stubborn.. and it is their baby girl.. they're just looking to protect her from any harm, even if there's no harm to protect her from. parents always seem to jump to the worst conclusion possible. what i would do if i were in the situation would be to continue to try to talk to them. it might be difficult at first but try. do simple things like just picking up their newspaper and bringing it to the house. smile when you see them anywhere.. really just anything to prove you're not a bad guy and you love their daughter..
you could also try giving it a little time. let them cool down.. then try all the nice stuff.. yea. i'd go with waiting a while to talk to them again.. not super long.. but give them room for awhile.
well. yea.
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well my gfs mom made us break up because she found my sweatshirt in my girlfriend room and said to my girlfriend you guys are sleeping around. we told her we arent but her mom treats her like shit and kept riding her about it and finally she told me she had to break up with me so her mom will stop treating her like shit. its not gonna help but she keeps telling me she loves me and I love her too. I just hate her psycho mother. so im sorry but I dont have an answer because I have no clue what to do either. sorry man. good luck :)
Respect them. But dont give up. If they see you are willing to fight for her, they will know how much you really care, and maybe take your relationship into consideration.
I suggest going to a friends house and getting your friend to wait until they get ur girl on the phone
