Im preqnant my baby daddy doesn't want iit

You shouldnt have gotten pregnant!

booyaa - please spell correctly. No offense, but I can hardly understand what you were writing. Ov?

Anyway, hun. I would love to say I have some awesome response for you, but I honestly don’t. If your boyfriend is really upset about it, then he sounds a bit selfish. I’m not trying to sound like someone’s grandma but even though sex feels good, the primary purpose of sex is to have children and he can’t honestly have any right to be upset now that it’s happened. He should be supportive, not just because he’s having a baby, but because if you two have had sex together, he should care about you and your well being. If he doesn’t, then maybe that’s not somebody you should bother spending more time with.

Luckily, there are a lot of states that do sympathize with women in your situation. You can seek out public assistance (Foodstamps, etc.) and WIC to get free food that you and your child will need to be healthy. I would suggest you get a good job (but don’t be overly picky) to help support your child and yourself. My sister was in the same situation, except he left her for the wife that he said he had divorced. It was a really tough situation, but luckily, my mother and all of us sisters came together. Lean on your family for support, though they may not initially be very accepting of the situation.

Also, there are plenty of hotlines and support centers for women who have this problem. You’re never alone :)

You guys dont help if you just ask why get pregnet.. !!! She didnt want it so stop with that.. anyway first I would go to anybody you know for help, your parents.. after its up to you to keep the baby if you want or to not.. Dont let anybody else make this decision.. its your choice

Wow you know the people who go on here and say you shouldnt get pregnant need to figure out how to keep their mouth shut

im really sorry that he isnt there but I think you can do it with out him :DD good luck

Make the dad pay child support

As soon as you can, talk to your Mother. Get her help and support. Next you are going to have to make some decisions. And these have to be YOUR decisions. Your parents will help you, but they are YOUR decisions to make. If you are still in the first trimester, and if you so choose, you can get an abortion.

If you want to go to term with the pregnancy, please, in your situation, keep in mind that giving the baby up for adoption by a stable, loving couple may be the best thing you can do for your baby.

But what ever you decide, you first need some support of caring people, like your parents. If you need advice or help, you can also call Planned Parenthood 70 Maple Ave, Smithtown, NY‎ - (631) 361-7526‎, or 180 Sunrise Hwy, West Islip, NY‎ - (631) 893-0150‎

Take care, and Good Luck!!

I hate when people ask why you got preg..its not als planned..my sister had a bay 11mnths ago and she didnt have it planned.she was finishing her last year in college and a baby was d last tin on her mind..but it happened.her boyfriend isnt much ov a help.u dont need your boyfirnd to be there for you to be a good mammy.my sister copes well.her boyfriend is als around but he never chages nappies,feeds her,gets ger to bed.so evn if he was aroiund your not guaranteed he wud b any help you will do fine..and don’t go 4 an abortion..its not your babies fault