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What should I do??? I am so confused?? My fiance lives out of state. I planned on moving in with him once I turned 18 however I wanted to go to school and my parents said they would pay for my school if I lived with them. So I did the smart thing and chose to stay there. However, I’m depressed everyday and have breakdowns because all I want to do is be with my fiance. School is very important to me and I would still plan to go to school if I lived with him. I just dont know what to do its like im making myself depressed just to make my parents happy because they want me to have a good education but im just not happy when im not with my fiance. Should I stay here finish school or move in with my fiance and get a job and still go to school??

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Answer #1

Thank you. And my fiance and I have been doing the distance thing for two years now. We always have our tough times but stick it out. Like I said education is important to me. And I will plan on going to school where my fiance lives.

Answer #2

do what your heart tells you. the happy side not the “I must please everyone” side. if being with your fiancee makes you happy then do that. but if your parents being happy makes you happier go with that. if either way you go to school(pleasing your parents) then go to your fiancee

Answer #3

Finish school – because you will still have your fiancee… it just means the relationship will be tested more by your distance.

But if you choose the other option, you lose the chance of further eduction.

I know this is practical advice and won’t help your emotional state at the moment, but once you’ve resolved, made the decision, you may find that everything falls into place.

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