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My parents think I am to you to go out with a girl, how can I convince them to let me??
I think you need to build trust in them... be a good and obedient child... and show them how independent and mature you have become... so they will stop considering you as a little child...
Use this method with them sure they will be bought and you can just ask whatever you want including going out... :-D Also, when you go out, never miss the time that you promise to arrive home, alw. inform them with appropriate reason once you are late... You may feel you are under control but do that for several times, you will see how effective it is... Your parents will permit you more freedom as they can see that though you go out yet you never forget home and them who are anxiously waiting for your arrival...
That is what I buy my parents' mind... hope it is useful for you...
Well it's kinda late but maby it will help some one else.
when you start liking the oppisite sex and you manage to meet one you like and you want to take them out on a date, At this point your parents think you still think girls have cooties don't even say anything untill the night you go out then tell your parents, hey can I get a ride to the mall, if you can drive then you really don't need there permission just go, but if you can't then get yourself a ride from them, they'll ask why, you say I've got a date like it's nothing and stuff, they'll be too schocked to deny you
and their probly not mean enough to let some poor girl get stranded, once you get that frist date you'll never have any more problems.
this also applies to makeup
well, this is defiantly too late but it will help other people. so, your gonna wanna help out extra hard, get really good grades. Keep all this up for a month then ask your parents. If it is a no DO NOT get all mad and frustrated just politely say Okay then walk away. If it is a yes DO NOT start stopping alll those good habits for like another month. Also don't start out dating girls your parent will hate. After you've been dating for awhile then take out any girl you want. GOOD LUCK!
my parents are really strict about that too. but I found out the closer I get to them and the more trust we have with eachother the more they feel like they can trust me to be with other people. try showing them a lot of respect and attention and try talking to them about it and see if things change up a lil :) good luck.
uim thirteen and dated two girls but if I tell a girl I love her and my mom finds out im screwed! I told her im not a little kid anymore. which is a lie... but its worked so for! and im a dude too unlike all the girls answering this who have no cluewhat its like to be a dude... no offense.
I have the same problem my parents went out on 8 oclock in the moring and were not back til noon the next day and I had to watch myh sister that whole time and I asked if I can go out with my friend to the bowling alley my mom sayed no I sayed why she sayed because I sayed so
well according to your profile your 16 that is not too young to most parents. you should sit them down and tell them straight out that you are starting to like girls and would like to start dating. tell them that you arent in middle school anymore. hope I helped ~kaitlyn~