Should I let my best friend date my ex?

Hunn, im in the same sitchh, my bestfrined is about to date my ex boyfriend and like me and him we liked eachother a lot, and like now she likes him and I dont want her to date him but I wouldnt tell her that cause yuh ti sounds pretty selfFish. but I duno just tell her how it makes you feel or You can let them be together and just let her deal with what happends. like if your mad at her after im sure she deserves it and like your friend shouldnt even be trying for your ex-boyfriend anyways that really rude. but I honestly wish I could tell my friend that I dont liek it but I just think that would be mean like its like you want hm to be happy but you want him to be happy wiht you! riighht?

But anyway hun I tihnk you should honestly do what you think is rigth if its letting tehm be together then so bee it but if its You telling tehm how you actually feel about it im sure thats better

goodlucckk Sweetiiee =)

sorry but thruth hurts..the best advice i can give u is both of u leave him..i know she wont get a chance..but its not worth takin a risk with ur best friends friendship..boys come and go..but true friends r had to find..same thing happen to me..but i let me best friend take my ex..and they are still going out ..but the same time i fell like such and idiot..and more problems created between me and her..we barely talk now..i fell like there is a big gap between us now..i lost my best friend over some boy..i just wish i never dated him..it doesnt worth it..

dont let her shes your bff not his A TRUE FRIEND WILL NOT DATE HIM nut if she isnt a true friend then she isnt and theres nothing you can do about it!!!

warn her that he might try to hurt her, or he might just want to go out with her because he wants to hurt you. not letting her go out with him would be a good idea, not selfish, if hes just gonna hurt her. if i wanted to go with one of my friends ex boyfriends (if i was straight) i would ask my friend first. she should ask you about it before she goes out with him.

hope i helped.

i did that once and now its a mistake i let my friend go out with my ex and she ended up geting hurt and so was i . listen when it come 2 boys , exs , and most of all friends its important that u make sure u dont hurt no one but it doesnt turn out like that all the time it alwasy ends up with some 1geting hurt . and thats y u should tell ur friend that she shouldnt cuz its better to be bbf then losing ur selfs to a boy

No No absolutely not. Absolutely NOT!

He’s a jerk. Your “friend” is a jerk. You don’t go out with your “best friend’s” ex, ESPECIALLY if she is still in love with the guy. This is the first rule of friendship. If they are written in the stars and meant to be, then they’ll find a way to be together without your blessing. But don’t just hand over the keys to her and say “That’s okay, Jennifer, you can go out with my boyfriend that I’m still in love with, I don’t want to be selfish and all…’ You say, “Jennifer, are you insane? I would never cause you pain and disrespect you on purpose like this. If this is how you treat your best friend, go find someone else you can treat like an idiot.”

You’re being the selfish one? Wow.

Yes, you may let it…

I don’t know well I am haveing the same problem this is what happen I saw this boy in church I tought he was cute then later I found out he was going out wit my friend then he broke up wit here then he went out wit a lot of other girls and then he went back wit him he told my best friend 21 told me that he wanted 2 meet me and that he wanted 2 go out wit me then next year he went 2 my school then he went out wit my other friend and stuff happened then my friend tells me he wants 2 go out wit me this upcomein year I asked my friend what would you do if your best friend went out wit a boy you ve allready went out and she said I would get really mad and never talk her and I tought that she was just plpayin but I know her good and she is not lyin and I asked my other friend if she would get mad and she said no she doest care I don’t know what 2 do

im 13 and im going thro the same situation my ec ( the one I still love ) is going out with my bestfriend me and her are still talking but its kinda differnt know when she asked me if it would hurt me I said no that I was ova him and I thought she would know I was lyin but she dint so know they are going out and it hurts me so bad I regrett not tellin her!!! talk to her and tell her you dont want her to and she should understand

HELL NO. please hun its not worth it. your best friend will understand if you wont let her. im in the EXACT same situation and its def not worth it.

my best friend for 7 years… just like completely did not tell me for 2 months that she was talking to my ex. and it was 2 months after we broke up. I dont even talk to her now and she just feels like a stranger to me now. their going out now and I cant believe my best friend for 7 years would do that to me.

if she really was your best friend she would stay out of the way of your past exes. dont ever tend to feel selfish because your not. you just dont want to lose her. no matter how nice you are… its not worth it.

Well if she asks you if it will hurt you then say ya. But if she doesn’t do that you can always tell her that “You now if you date him it will hurt me”. This happened to me one week ago. My best friend asked me if it would hurt me I said no it is fine but it will hurt me but I dont want to tell her that. So just be honest with your friend and if she understands and goes by what you say, you know she is a true friend!