Help I need my dad!

well…I too have a lot of prob at home.. I think … your mom wants to be a single parent to u… dere maybe many reasons behind it..and maybe your mom just wants to keep you safe.. don’t judge her like that…I am sure she loves you like hell…! I know the importance of a dad…but it might hurt your mom a lot to hear that you want to know about the person who might have hurt her so much in the past…or maybe have ditched her..(just assuming..please don’t take it personally).. be polite when you ask her about this… tell her that you will never question her again if it was so disturbing… convince her…that you will always be beside her, no matter what.. she maybe a little insecure too. you are too young to understand honey…but you can contribute to her feeling towards you and cooperate with her in certain things..required.. -love you!

well I would say tell your mom that you would like to have your dad in your life and that it would really be happier with him in your life

If all you have to go on is a name, it’s going to be pretty hard to locate him.

We’re not Private Investigators.

hmm…thats a tough one!! I don’t know what to tell you but maybe try bugging her to tell you like make a list of 10 questions abobut him and let her answer them I don’t know if I helped! hope I did!!

look his name up in the phone book & get his adress or calll him & ask

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I bet your mum is doing it for your best interests. my mum also disallowed me from seeing my dad and at the time I resented her but now I understand her intentions were only good.

Maybe your mum is the same. maybe your Dad is not a like-able character. Maybe they had a traumatic relationship and she wants to protect you from seeing your “real” Dad.

I think you need to have a really good conversation with her. If you are old enough then she could at least arrange a supervised visit. I understand you want to know your Dad and that is a totally natural feeling. You just have to make sure that you don’t build up too high expectations of him. good luck. Beth