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I have been married for 2 and a half years. My wife and I have a son, which we are both very happy with. However, after he was born her sex drive dropped dramatically. She used to be willing to give head, but now it is out of the question. Everything exciting has been thrown out the window (ie anal, oral or any playing). I have tried everything I can think of, but nothing helps. What should I do? Please help!

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Answer #1

hey, im in the same position and my babs is 3. il guarante you she is insecure over her body and feels like she isnt sexy. the key is trying to make her feel sexy without it sounding like a broken record player. get friends to compliment her any negative comments even if they are just playfull will have severe consequences for her confidence. just give her time and dont pester her. I lnow its hard no pun intended because my girl is the same. having a child changes theie perspective. the child becomes the main focus. when the child gets more independant as they do each year her attitude will change. theres a lot of things going on in a womans mind just hang in there.

Answer #2

Maybe she’s a bit insecure since she’s had the kids ? Like insecure about her body. Or maybe she just lost interest in some of that stuff like anal or whatever. If she don’t wanna do it then she don’t wanna do it you can’t force her.

Answer #3

maybe you should spice up the relationship before you try to spice up the sex life try to do all or some of those fun things you used to do before you had a kid or that you used to do earlier on in the relationship such as going out to dinner, walks on the beach, going to the movies fun and romantic things like that and flirt with each other a lot that way hopefully you’ll both be really worked up by the end of it you’ll be happy to try those things again but then again, if she doesn’t want to do them you cant make her also it would be good to sit her down and talk to her about why sex isn’t as adventurous as it was and you both can try to think of ways to spice it up

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