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Usually you will think you have the same feelings for 2 different people. But, in the end there's always that one person who you deep down inside had more feelings for. You might not realize this now but it's true. Ask yourself this.. Which guy do I smile more when I'm around? Which guy makes me laugh constantly when I sad? Which guy do I go to first when I have issues? Which guy calls me more or hangs out with me more? Which guy do I like to spend time with the most and think about the most? The answers for all these questions is going to be Only 1 of the 2 guys :)
Ignore them both completely for a while, and see who still tries to call/see/be with you. Note their behavior, if they just kinda let you go then they obviously aren't seriously interested in you. Inversely, if they start acting paranoid and melodramatic, then you know they're crazy about you.
I usually go to my best friend of the opposite sex and ask him what he would do in my position and he can usually give me clairity. But what you could to is write a pros and cons list for each of them. It might help you see "Red Flags" and such in one way or the other.
I usually go to my best friend of the opposite sex and ask him what he would do in my position and he can usually give me clairity. But what you could to is write a pros and cons list for each of them. It might help you see "Red Flags" and such in one way or the other.
Quite bluntly, what's the point? It's in two places, you can offer no one your full heart. It's bound to end anyways.
In the immortal words of Firesign Theatre, "How can you be in two places at once when you're not anywhere at all?"
I think the heart is usually more in one place than the other and it's the mind that is playing tricks on it.
...and their paranoid melodrama qualifies them as good boyfriend material. {:^P
Pick the one that youll least regret latter and you believe in most.
choose which ever 'place' makes you feel better.
Choose you wouldn't want them to do it to u.
find out who loves you the most
see a doctor.
