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He's cheating on me with my goddaughter

My bestfriends just died in a car crash. I’m their angel’s godmother and took in this 18 yr old girl, Ronnie(Veronica). Ronnie is very sexy, cute and always gets her way. My husband is 22 and 12 years younger then me. Ronnie wants my husband, Mark. She flirts and tries really hard. Mark likes her and you can tell. He hurt his foot so I work nights which leaves Ronnie and Mark alone at night. I think Ronnie’s pregnant with Mark’s baby. She gave him a card for his birthday that said I’ll sleep with you if you leave you’re wife and kids and he said in 4 months and kissed her. Not just a kiss on the cheek… a kiss! With lots of love put into it. She was laying on the table and everything. I walked in on them and started screaming and Mark said sorry he wouldnt do it again and got carried away. I think he’s divorcing me and marrying her. But I’m not totally sure and he won’t talk about it. But I’ve seen wedding invitations! And he gave her a ring. You seem like someone who can help me: Now what do I do?

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Answer #1

This sounds like an extremely painful situation. Unfortunetly, there doesn’t seem to be any happy endings here. It sounds like the cat is out of the bag but nobody wants to own up. Have you tired confronting them both together by calmly sitting down with them and just asking for them the truth? If they are engaged, having sex behind your back, already planning a family and sending out wedding invitations, it’s time to stop playing games and get everyone to put their cards on the table. Obviously, they are confortable doing all this in your presence without any consideration for your feelings which makes them not only horribly selfish but also cruel and immature. You need to seperate yourself from both of them as soon as possible so that you can mend your broken heart and start a new life. As long as you play along and do not confornt them or leave your husband, you are letting them take advantage of you and hurting yourself. Adress the situation as soon as possible and get out of this terribly painful situation.

Answer #2

Oh my gosh. Im trying to picture myself inyour situation. If my bf ever did that to me, id find myself in an institution for traumatized teens sitting in a dark corner holding my knees and signin “its a small world after all…” Best wishes hunxoxoxoxoxox

Answer #3

I can not believe you didn’t strangle the two of them. I cannot imagine how you feel. You should let them be. You caught them and you seen it with you own eyes. There is no excuse. You need to leave him. Obviously, you know what to do. So do it!

Answer #4

What the hell is wrong with you. You should have killed that bitch. I don’t know why the hell she is still living in the house. Something is wrong with you. Why haven’t you said anything if you knew that all of that is going on. And now you want advice when they might be having a baby together. The best advice I can tell you is to try your hardest to save your marriage. Spicen your sex life. Wear something sexy, and beat that bitches a**. Man I wish you would have done something sooner, but I hope everything works out.

Answer #5

Well, I told him I was going to file for divorce before he filed for divorce and he freaked out and yelled that was ok because atleast he had someone. And he also informed me he wasn’t going to visit. I told him that was fine. He doesn’t have to visit. His names not on the kids’ birth certificate and I wouldn’t have let him see them anyways. So. She’s pregnant. 4 months. She turned 18 2 months ago. They’re getting married in 21 days. She’ll be Mrs. Veronica Blahblahblah. Anyways. Thanks. I was going to do that to start with but I wasn’t sure if I should.

Answer #6

that girl should be ashamed of herself you took her in when her mother died!!! she is suspose to be in mourn not breaking up a family that took her in and she shouldn’t be worried about having sex!!! you can’t just be mad at her it takes 2 to do that not just one even though she lead him on he the one that let it go further!!! you need to get her out of ur house if you and ur husband are going to try to work things out!! and if he chooses to be with her you and your kids move on!!! that girl needs her ass whooped

Answer #7

Ok… Hey. There are 2 sides to every story. I’m Ronnie. First-Wow, Kitty Kat! That’s a nice compliment. I’m sexy and cute. I’m all smiles. :) Second-Mark was going to leave you anywayz. You’re fucking 34 yrs old! You’re an idiot if you really thought it was going to work out. Zorbot- Wow! Mm, yah. Um… theres a happy ending for me!! And Kailey, you make it sound like you have no self-respect at all! If you’re bf cheated on you you’d throw your life away? Wow.

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