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He Needs to get his act together!

okay so I have been with the same guy for about 3 and a half years on and off. and through this time there have been mistakes I made and then mistakes he made. he has been spounging off of me for all this time and it ended last time we were together before the last space break up and he was doing everything on his own…we got back together just about 2 months ago and the same thing is happening again where he is spounging off of me and staying at my apt everynight instead of going back to his and he blames it on ME when I stick up for myself with all of these situations…I don’t want it togo back to me supporting him again please help before it is too late!!!!!

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You need to put your foot down, tell him you need to talk and explain how he makes you feel. Dont yell becos it gets you no where, have a serious conversation and try putting him in your shoes so he sees how you feel. He is the man, he is supposed to be looking after you and taking care of you, a relationaship is supposed to be equal, everything 50/50, tell him he needs to start chipping in becos you cant support him and yourself alone.

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