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Ok my guy friend and I have been planned on hanging out at this board walk late at night and I picked him up because I haven't seen him in a long time. Before that even happen, he texted me random questions like "have you ever been kissed?" and I was like "no." So anyway I kinda figured he was going to kiss me there and sure enough he did. First time we kissed he said it was good but I sorta made an unsure reaction on my face after because I was a little scared. Second time when I dropped him off at his house he tried kissing me again and I was more scared and he could tell so he told me to take a chill pill and calm down =. Two days later I just texted him a "hello" but no response. He knew I never kissed anybody so it wouldn't be like perfect but I don't understand why he isn't talking to me back? please help
ah angelfire you are a cynic. All guys arent a**holes... really... they really are not all after sex!
I know it's hard to think of guys having feelings, but they do... maybe he's just confused, or worried he did something wrong... maybe he doesnt know what to say to you and so is avoiding you... maybe it's all awkward now and he doesnt know what to do... Maybe he's just busy... Maybe he didnt see the text, or maybe he saw it, decided to reply later and forgot...
Dont take it personally, it is his issue whatever it is. And if angelfire is right, then he's a jerk and you're better off without him... Either way, no point in stressing about it...
Oh well...Simple. Have you girls read the He's just not that into you. Remember one thing..We are not the exception. If a guy really likes you, he'll do anything to get you and be proud to tell the worl about you. This whole concept of guys being scared, that bullshit. If you keep on making excuses for him, thinking he's scared and etc..you're wasting your time. Its as simple as that. he kissed you and there was no spark and he moved on. Keep things simple and don't think too much about it. Guys love the chase...so let them chase you. And stay on top of the game..
I'm going to say the reason is because of this part mostly.> ** Second time when I dropped him off at his house he tried kissing me again and I was more scared and he could tell so he told me to take a chill pill and calm down**. That was kind of a rude thing to say. I think he cared more about getting kissed than he did about you & your feelings. Since you denied him the second time, he feels why waste time on her. In my opinion, your the one who shouldnt be wasting time on him.
Try not reading too much into it at the moment. He could have just been busy and missed it. Or he genuinely could have forgotten to text back when he saw it. Or he could have taken the hint from you that you're not ready for anything more than friendship at the moment, so he's just being cool about it and not make a big deal out of it.
^^Did I say ALL guys are after sex?^^ Whenever SEX is brought up, especially when two people arent even dating, then YES its all they want. Its really not a tough one to figure out!
Ty, I totally disagree with your logic on this one!
"Since you denied him the second time, he feels why waste time on her."
alright, he wanted more kissing, is that better?
I agree with ty
