he cant cum for females

You can try to better the situation together or you can go get help. I suggest you go together to see a sex therapist. The therapist will be able to help you talk about it and get to the root of the problem.

He needs to know that he isn’t the only one with this problem and that he can definetly get over it if he is willing to work on it. The fact that you are so willing should encourage him. Talking about it together is a good start but analysing it too much will ruin sex altogetehr because he will feel pressured into performing. If he can cum on his own then he can cum with you.

I suggest you try just having fun masturbating together. He can always pleasure you oraly and you can try pleasuring him and letting him finish by masturbation. The trick is to slowly integrate you into his masturbation. Once he gets used to cuming with you it should help go further.

The only problem is that is he isn’t able to cum in front of someone or in someone it’s because he obviously feels unconfortable for some reason (ex.: does he feel ashamed? does he have trust issues? does he accept his body? does he feel pressured into performing? Is he scared of something? etc) This is where therapy can really help. The therapist can explore these issues with him and can also give you multiple suggestions, games or things to try together. They will also help you to deal with your emotions surronding this situation (ex.: frustration, self-esteem, etc.). Good luck!