Having terrible thoughts about my father, how to get rid of them? I've been real emotional since yesterday. I know the cause, which is my father. I've been having terrible dreams about him molesting me which isn't good! Then, I've been dreaming about my mother. She's a different story though. Since none of my family believes me that my father had any sexual contact with me, how should I go about getting rid of these feelings about him? I'm not looking for negative answers please! Only answers that'll help. Also, I would like people that would understand me.
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If you have someone you would be comfortable talking with, try talking out your thoughts and feelings to them. If you can, a therapist would be best.
Fun Mail a "sounding board"!
I would assume that you can't talk about what you are going through with anyone because it is too personal and you don't want others to know about it in relation to you.
The solution, then, might be to pick someone on Fun Advice whose advice you like and Fun Mail them. (You can check out the quality of someone's advice by clicking on their name; going down to their recent advice, click on view all, then click on the questions that might interest you and view their answers.) Explain to them that you are having problems and want to have someone to use as a "sounding board" and would like to know if they would be willing to be your sounding board. Fun Mail is basically private, so you shouldn't have any concerns about your privacy.
Although there are many users on Fun Advice who would be qualified, I'd suggest the person be an Advisor, for two reasons: First, most Advisors have several hundred or even thousands of Answers under their belt which can really give you a perspective about them; and second, you can simply click on the Advisors link at the top of the page and view a list of the most recently active Advisors with information about them AND a total of their Answers. (Don't contact them by that "Ask me a question" link. That's public. Instead, click on their name which will take you to their Profile page, then click on the "Send me Fun Mail" link on the left side of the page.)
You also have the ability to Fun Mail anyone (Advisor or otherwise) by clicking on the "Send me Fun Mail" link near the top of the Answer under the person's name.
friend you don't know how I'm suffering you are only the way that can help me I don't have ny friends. now listen my problem-- when I was small because of my father I got hurt on my head whenever I do something he always beets me.first he says that I'm not nice then I scold him then he beets me and after and all he beets me for small problems and when he goes Kombatur his mother says that trouble her please say the solution to get rid out of this problem my friend from sona
awww ...You need to talk to your dad or yuor mom or just go to a therepist and let it all out = /
awh. you need to talk to someone about this. don't hold it all in. go to a therapist.
