How can I get over grief of my Mom dying?

One day you will feel very loved and very cared for - its these things that you are longing for - the things you miss about not having a mum. When you get them from someone else not having a mum wont feel so hard to bear anymore. Heres a little (((hug))) to help you along the way :-)

My grandfather raised me from the time i was about 4 until he passed away when i was 19. I’m 22 now and i’m still not over it. Counseling helps i don’t go anymore but while i was there i got a lot of help, but one thing i was told and i believe is that you will never get over it, but with time you will learn to deal with it better. sometimes for me just talking or crying to someone who will just sit and listen helps alot . If you need someone to just listen i’m here for you. good luck

Hun i don’t really know wat to say ‘cause i have never had my mom die but i know that your mom wouldn’t won’t you to sit here and cry be sad so live your life and live it good don’t do drugs or drink or smoke beileve me it dousn’t help it just makes you stink (LOL) We’ll hun there is this show called one tree hill you should watch it there is this girl patin and she is really sad and grupy all the time her mom died when she was seven and she is 17 and her real mom just died from cancer! it’s the sadest thing ever but you’ll love hun just go out there and live your life you’ll feel better go to church and get close to god he’ll help you he helped me ALOTE and believe me you’ll see your mom again I’ll pray for kk…

                                      ~Toodles!~

I’m sorry, and your right you can’t live your hole life like that but you know what your always gunna feel sad that you didn’t have any memories just remember that your mother LOVES you and she always will. Even right now while she has everlasting life in heaven she’s there watching over you and watching you grow up like she wishes she could. A mother is somone special and your always going to miss her your just gunna get used to it. You can’t stop how you feel this just shows that you want/wish/ and need a mother in your life. I think that because no one talks about her you feel this more. If they talked about her you could feel like you new her. Remember you and your mother will always have that special bond between mother and her child. I wish you best of luck.

• Erin

I believe in time you will get over it. Don’t listen to negatives, it just insn’t true. Grief takes work to go through all the issues you are having, it won’t go away on its own, but some people are not equipped to do the work required and they needlessly suffer indefinitely, this is called complicated grief. My advice is get some professional help, see a qualified psychologist (not the same as a counsellor). There is a way out of your pain and you will recover with the right help. You may still have moments where your grief returns but this just means you still have work to do before you are finished with your grief, it doesn’t mean you will always feel this way.

Thank you wannabethinbuthealthy xx

thank you

thanks satsumamoon (((hug back))) lol

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