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my grandma has cancer and im really sad ! I dont want to loose a great person. I have never lost a family member before and I dont know what to exspect or what to do. im going crazy just thinking about my grandma being barried in the nasty cold ground. what should I do to stop the sadness? its unconroled sadness I can stop thinking aboUt her!
grieving is perfectly normal, the loss of a loved one is a very hard thing to face. stay connected to your family, they are going through this as well, just don't face it alone. katydid's advice is very good- talking to a counselor is a good way to start. and do not let your pain lead to unhealthy behaviour, such as cutting- drinking, etc. if you face your pain now and let it out in a healthy manner- alongside the rest of your family- all of you will get through this. keep your head up- and let your pain out.
My great grandma passed away from cancer, it was probably one of the saddest things I've ever experience. I actually watched her take her last breath and was there the entire week she was in the hospital. I honestly had a really hard time over it, the one thing that helped me the most was going to a counselor to take care of the depression I was going through. It's nothing to be embarrassed about. They won't give you medicine, most likely they will tell you about the grieving process and how got cope with it.
I am sooo sorry that you r going through dis...my great gramma died and I felt exactly da same...it makes me happy when I think of gd tyymes we had and you got 2 remember shes happy up in heaven and she would want you 2 b happy...she is always with you watching over u and proberly calling you her little diamond she loves you and wants you 2 have a happy life...she wants you 2 know she is fine and 4 you 2 stop worrying babe gd luck on patching up !! xxx
I am so sorry for this difficult time in your life - it's hard to face but something we all must deal with even the fact that we too will face it - I would pray for strength, support, and grace to handle this situation - if able, tell her what you need to now - remember all the great times and wisdom passed - all of you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
you should just charish every minute you have with her and you should listen to thid song it helps a little its called 'In The Floor of Heaven"