Why is my girlfriend acting so wierd after we just had our "first time" together?

try talkin to her ask her why she is acting that way tell her she can talk to you about anything make her feel comfortable she might tell you whats wrong hope that helped

Oh my, you were young to have sex. She is having a hard time. Perhaps guilt, perhaps fear, whatever the cause is…keep talking to her. Tell her you love her and DO NOT try to have sex the next time you are alone with her. Take it slow…show her you are the same guy that you were before….

Im assuming you used a condom… but those dont always work. just ask her if she’s prego. that could be a big reason why shes pulling away

ummmm…he stated they just lost their virginity to each other. a little too early to be pregnant. she might be scared that she could become pregnant but if she is actually worried this early about being so…well, she should not be having sex. And yes…hopefully they used birth control.

Take her flowers and ask her if you can talk to her, then ask her what the problem is, Tell her you’re there for her, and you want her to be happy.

hmm you think 19 is a young age to have sex in? OMG… I’m so glad I’m not American

she probably isnt used to it. and wants 2 take it slow you should try expressing ur worries 2 her and mabye it wud work out

she probably isnt used to it. and wants 2 take it slow you should try expressing ur worries 2 her and mabye it wud work out

1st time sex for a girl can be painfull and to be honest sometimes scary, maybe she experienced pain or some bleeding due in or after sex and her giving you the cold shoulder is her way of ‘protecting’ herself. Talk to her, tell her you love her and just because you’ve had sex once doesnt mean you want it all the time. Give her the space and time she needs, but let her know your there. good luck

For some people it isn’t about the age. It is about values and/or maturity. It is possible that at 19 (and unmarried) some people are not ready. To some people it is just sex but to others it’s giving your whole self to another person.

lol, I am basing my answer on his statement. A person mature enough to have sex would not be going through the problems they are having. I personally believe if you are mature enough and in a committed relationship, 19 is not too young. “young” does not always apply to chronological age. :) “young” can also refer to state of mind.

Talk to her. Show her she can trust you. Try harder. :) Goodluck…

umm utopia just because it was there first time doesn’t mean she can’t be pregnant

Gee…I am 53 and a biochemist…I think I know that. Read my statement… My implication was that it was too early for her to think she was pregnant…or using your term “prego”.

Are you sure she wanted to do it? Maybe she just had sex with you to make you happy. Like I did that with my boyfriend, I lost my virginity to him and I definitely wasn’t ready at all, but I did it because he was very persistant and I wanted to make him happy. Afterwards I was afraid to be around him because I was sort of disgusted with myself. I also thought that I could make him happy with sex because it made him happy the first time, so I kept thinking he wanted to have sex again whenever we hung out. I would just keep talking to her, and tell her that you love her. Also, maybe take her on a date, like out to dinner or something, to show that you don’t want to have sex all the time and that unsexual things are fun to you as well. I hope this helped a bit. I really hope things work out for you two.