we have been talking for awhile! and it seems like he still has feelings for me by the things he says, and he says some pretty odd things someone with a gf shouldn't say.
i just need to know what i should do. and don't tell me to back off.
he was mine first!;D and obviously still likes me
You just proved Iffy's point. He's a crap boyfriend he knows he has a girlfriend but he doesn't care. He doesn't care about his girlfriend? Why doesn't he just break up with her to be with you then? Think on it. He likes having two girls, one his girlfriend, the other one stringing along in case anything happens. Not to mention guys like girls fighting over them. What you do instead, is point out to him that he has a girlfriend and he shouldn't be talking to you like this. He should get the point. If he then breaks up with her, then obviously, he cares for you more. If he doesn't well, he just likes having you around and is using you.
The way i look at it is he obviously doesn't care about his girlfriend, because if he did he wouldn't be talking to me, especially the way he does! and he has said that he misses me. he wont treat me the same way. ill make sure of it. and another thing is im single i could do whatever i want, he on the other hand should be the one who says "okay no i cant do this i have a gf" but he doesn't besides i don't like her so i really don't care..
But it's not your relationship so what goes on between them has nothing to do with you. We aren't commenting to attack you, we are trying to open your eyes to new perspectives and show you that what you're trying to do isn't right and your ex isn't the best guy out there. Yup, you're right. There's 3 sides to every story. His story, your story, and the truth.
Why would you want someone who is obviously playing you. He has a girlfriend but is leading you on (which is CHEATING). What makes you think that he won't treat you the same way?
Don't let a guy treat you like that and don't meddle in other people's relationships. He is not an object so "he was mine first" will NEVER apply with anybody.
'I'm single. I can do what I want.' Um.. No, you can't ?! See... It's not just about you and what you want. What's wrong with people?? Stop being selfish and let them decide first what is going to happen to their relationship before you go back with him. Think. Think before you act. Think!
Ok you guys have good points. but you guys don't know the whole story. and no im not trying to get back at his new gf, i just don't like her, shes to obsessive over him and i cant stand it. so go ahead and say whatever but you dont know half of it.
FIND SOMEONE BETTER AND FORGET ABOUT HIM.HE IS NOT WORTH IT.IN FUTURE I AM SURE YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE MUCH BETTER THEM HIM,SOMEONE WHO WILL REALLY LOVE YOU AND WONT MAKE YOU FEEL BAD.
Tell him to call you after he breaks up with his new girlfriend; until then you're "busy." That way you can find out if he seriously wants you back or just wants whatever he can get.
I actually don't think this has anything to do with your ex. I think you're actually just trying to get back at his new girlfriend.