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I need to knoow what to do I got booked recently by tha rents for blazing - they know I do now I guess (or at least have tha idea) but they dunn knoe how much I’ve been doin it. and my mom knows I smoke as well . I’ve also been getting invloved wid this guy whos into all this gang shiit and somehow they found out.

I really need to know just how to handle all this shiiit yenno ? and is blazin all that bad people make it out to be , because I really dunn think so .

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Answer #1

the health risks are endless I’m afraid, not to mention the mental health ones of paranoia and cannabis induced psychosis. you can be doing it for ages and be absolutly fine, then ‘wham’ you have a mental health problem, especially if you’re doing it regurly.

and as for the gang thing, why? why hang around with people who have a reputation for certain behaviour. the reason why people don’t like them, is because, they’re renown for violence and parents don’t because, well to be honest, they’ve spent all these years raising you and they may well b frightened that something would happen to you, or else you will get caught up in anti-social behaviour - people judge people on the people they assosiate with…

I, personally, and I know it sounds idealistic, think you should put all your energy into finding people who will be a better influence on you and focus on your education.

please no matter what you decide, be very careful. I know they guy may seem perfect, but if he really cares about you, he will respect your decision to not socialise with gangs.

I don’t blame your parents for being unhappy about the gang thing, I would be so disapointed with my boys if they did, I want them to have a good, healthy long life, not engage in activitys that may jeopardise it…

Answer #2

well your parents are worried about you if you were a mother and had a daughter wwho was getting high and then started seeing someone from a gang…how would you feel? you obviously dont know all or any or the risks that smoking comes with these are just SOME of the things it can cause lung cancer bad breath premature ageing your face aging quicker yellow teeth tooth decay yellow nails trouble breathing clogging up you arteries with tar screwing up your fertility the thousands of dangerouse chemicals in every cigarette osteoperosis decresasing your life span raising your blood pressure and blood clots risk heart dissease/heart attacks

Answer #3

juss tell them everytime you get caught thats that is only the 1st (2nd or 3rd) time you have ever did it (smoked). if they find your stash tell them your holding it for sumbody else (so they dont take it) that sh*t worked for me for years (even at drug evaluations)

Answer #4

well really its kind of bad to blaze hey it feels good and all but think of tha longg term damages yahh digg.? and messing around with a guy in gang iishh* isntt good just aslong as you stay out of tha gangs maybe you wont b involved with anything you gottah stay safe ndd dont blaze as muchh because iish like that really screws witchu yah digg

Answer #5

There just being parents. Really I personally dont think its that bad to smoke. But your parents probably know that, just try to never smoke at your house. Your parents do care and just for their sake, go somewhere else. the world is huge, just walk down the block or something lol.

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