Why do my friends call me a good girl slut?

i see that and now my hole school calls me it

I wouldn’t call them friends. No one would know why they calls you a slut. Talk to them and ask them Don’t let them talk crap to you like that. You don’t deserve it and they shouldn’t get away with it.

Yeah i know they say there joking around but idk now the hole school is calling me it…what is a good girl slut

Their is no such thing. Unless they mean that your a slut who is innocent like you dress slutty but your a sweetheart or they’re just calling you a plain slut in a “nice way”. Don’t let them talk to you like that.

It’ll pass. We thrive on gossip. Were just so terribly pathetic :)

I’m not sure why they call you a slut, but if it bothers you, I think that you should let them know that it really upsets you when they do that. If you have talked to them and it didn’t work, perhaps you could try wording it differently to them?

I’d say something like:

“I’m really angry with you guys for calling me a slut. Since you guys have done that, it seems to have ruined my reputation here in school and everyone else is starting to call me one now. When you all do that, it makes me feel quite horrible about myself as a person. I know that you guys were joking at first, but I no longer appreciate it and I would really appreciate it if you guys stopped.”

Give that a whirl.

If they don’t stop, though knowing that it’s ruining your reputation and seriously upsetting you, then they really aren’t that good of friends.

hahahah yeahh i know lol :)

It doesn’t really bother me but i dont know even know what a good girl slut is

yeah i shouldn’t but i really dont like fighting with people i dress slutty sometimes but not all and also idk what to do

Meaby at some point you did somthing or dressed a certain way that made them call you that? Whatever it is, just talk to them and let them know say “you know what, the little nick name is not pleasent, so please don’t call me that anymore” They are your friends so they should respect that, if not then looks like they are not good friends after all. If they are just saying it as a joke and you know it, and you don’t mind it, then I guess it is ok, but if you do tell them.

yeahhh your right thanks :)

In our school people call others sluts when that person goes out with everyone or sleeps with everyone. My friends call them doorknobs, because everyone gets a ‘turn’. If I was you, I wouldn’t let anyone call me that. I consider that an insult. If you don’t want people to call you that, then contradict what they are saying. Don’t date any boys for a while and break some rules now and then. Do it at your own risk, I don’t want you to blame me if you get caught or something. Tell your friends to please stop calling you that, because it hurts your feelings or something. Make them understand your situation, or even make up names for them.

hahahah i wouldnt blam you lol im still trying to figure out what a good girl slut is lol

You dress how you want. If your proud of how you look, screw them all. Its human nature to judge, we all do. You have to live through hearing people putting you down, calling you names, treating you like crap, but it doesnt mean you cant do nothing about it. Keep your head held high, you dont have to fight them. If your proud of who you are, smile it off. Or even better, wink at the girls who do. Believe me, when a girl calls another a “slut” it means shes jealous and wants what she has. Be proud, stay strong. Smile, wink, stick your tongue out. Show them your proud of who you are. Dont let them bring you down, you are your own person and no one can change that ;-)

They probably want somthing…. don’t hang around people like that who call you a slut….

wow your really good at giving adivice thanks:)<3 i think im going to do that

yeahh ur right

Haha glad it helped ;-)

me 2 ;-)

I am not saying that the are right but have you ever or do have sex with more than one guy in a week? If you don’t you don’t deserve to be called that and I thnk that you should fond put who said it and either tel the princepal of your school or hunt the person down and give them a peice of your mind.

no i dont have sex

WELL THEN THEY aRaT RETaDed

Im a good girl slut too sweets,i dont think theres much wroong with it. heree,(my words:) Good girl slut= A girl who flirts around,likes being advantures and creative but doesnt mess mess around like sex or sleep with random guys at partys,more like wouldnt mind making out with some random hot guyy.or wouldnt mind a guy tuching ur boobs or something for truth or dare but wouldnt go an have sexx. stuff like that,I honistly think that there more so jelouse,an only kidding(:

yeahhh

Possibly kidding around. I call my friends whores and crap all the time AS A JOKE. But they know I’m joking. If it really bothers you, tell them to stop or otherwise they are not REAL friends. Good luck!

hahahha yeah thnaks

sometimes people (ie..girls) come up with bad names that they use for others in thier weird way of making up “nicknames” for each other. I call my sister a “bit@h” but she’s my best friend and sister. she calls me names to its joking around since he and I use to beat eachother up. when we were growing up.

if it really bothers you just rememeber words are words

True friends don’t slam or get rude . Calling you a slut common think about it they are either just jealous that you attract most guys or your just a talented flirt . Next time just go up to your friend and call her one see how it makes her feel , her reaction will give you a clue if its based on a laugh or truth .