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all right well I was invited to a big party that my best friend threw.Well after the party me and her had a sleepover just to catch up on things.She prepaired whip cream and all this sweets and stuff.Then while we were having some whipcream she was like"dame.My diet is now ruiend"And then she rushed to her bathroom and like slammed the door in my face and I can here her throwing up and then she did and when she flushed the toilet she said you can comin.So I did and she was whiping her mouth and washing her face and then she brushed her teeth.WEll her parents werent home so thats proboly did it.Well then when she told me too pick out a scary movei like nothing happend so I did and she played it and then she told me I can have the remote so I paused it she was like why did you do that.Well I fired back at her why did you just gag.WEll amazingly she kept her cool and said "it was just that time and I wont do it again"please keep your cool and dont tell"well I was more mad know but managed to keep quit because some reason I trusted her because we been friends since I was four and now I regret ever trusting her and I met up with in school and she looked weak and had sags under her eyes and all and she was already skinny before this so just after two weeks she looks like a walking skelliton. I really want some advice to make her stop because her parents are always away and barely even notice her.please help because I would hate to loose my best friend anad write now im crying and now im getting mad because im about to go out and I ruining my make up and my friends ruining her chance to live!! I feel so freaken bad!!!Help me too help her!!!A.S.A.P!
Hi I'm Not An Expert But My Little sisters the same way shes like 9 and half the way we got her to stop is telling her about her whole future how shell die and how being belimic hurts you heres ectaly what I tell my sister anna
Okay Hunny Im Not An expert but do you know whats going to happen if you keep doing this she should say what if you keep doing this youll die you will loose your family friends your life everything you ever wanted or loved gone
after telling her this everyday for about 2 weeks she stopped
love- leslie or rainbow
p.s.: I know what it feels like to loose someone you love my bestfriend who I was 2 months when we started being friends died last month tring to save me from getting shot
pps: if that dont work try finding a way were she see's this . like if she over to your hosue turn to this page and say I have to go the bathroom adn shell read it then she'll probley know how you feel and stop
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WELL HONEY LISTEN YOU NEED TO TELL HER LIKE IT IS. SHE IS DAMAING HER STOMACH AND HER THROAT BECAUSE IF YOU DO THAT SO MUCH YOU CAN GET THROAT CANCER BECAUSE YOU HAVE SO MUCH ACID IN YOUR STOMACH AND PRETTY SOON IF SHE KEEP DOING THAT THEN SHE WONT HAVE TO DO THAT MUCH LONGER BECAUSE HER BODY WILL GET USED TO THAT AND IT WILL AHPPEN EVERYTIME THAT SHE EATS SOMETHING. BUT I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY SHE IS MAKING HER SELF THROW UP IF SHE IS ALREADY SKINNY THATS NOT RIGHT. PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN AND TELL HER LIKE IT IS AND TELL HER YOU ARE A GOOD FRIEND BUT IF SHE DONT HELP HER SELF THAT YOU ARE GOING TO TELL HER PARENTS BECAUSE IF YOU DONT SHE WILL END UP DEAD AND WE NONE WANT THAT TO HAPPEN... IF YOU NEED SOMEONE TO TALK WITH EAMIL ME ANY I WOULD BE GLAD TO TALK WITH YOU ANYTIME...
Try putting your self in their shoes. If you were determind that you looked bad how would you like to be helped?Also you must remember this has more to do with her head than her head than her actual weight. It can be about controll and feeling that the body is the only thing that she can controll in her life.If my friend had an E.D. I'd start by trying to make her life as happy as possible, also I'd try and get her help maybe try a teacher or doctor.Also getting her to realise the problem she has and just listenning to her is helpfull.At the end of the day it's up to the individual to get her self out so you need to show her this and make sure she knows all the good things she has in her life and what she could do with her life when she gets a bit of help.
First things first, be calm when you talk to her, and tell her the physiological dangers to unhealthy eating habits. Maybe the two of you could google bulemia or anorexia and read some of the posted info in reputable websites. They can get into mre details as to the organ failure and etc... Discuss your concerns with a school counselor, or medical professional if possible. Issues with anorexia and bulemia are not about weight it is about self image. Let her know that you love her and will always support her and that you want her to continue on in this incredible life. Love her.
My lil sis used 2 be anorexic. she only confided in me. you have to tell her why its so wrong. tell her you will be wiv her all the way. make sure she knows that you can help her out of it. eating disorders like anorexia and bulimia are a state of mind too.. help her my getting her out of the spiral. look it up on the net and talk to your parents about it.
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the only thing if you tell her that you are worried she might freak out and go defensive on you and I dont think you want that I would approach her with caution... because I would kinda go defensive too if someone did that too me. because I have problems too.. but my advice is go in with caution... but I would talk to her find the right time and place...
Tell her what you told us! Tell her how horrible you would feel if she died... and she will if she doesn't get help and she keeps this up. Tell her she has to get some help or she will die, and you would be so upset if that happened, tell her all of your feelings and see what she says about it.
Yes.. exactly talk to her first about how you feel about it all. After a while maybe try and persuade her to get help. At you school you might have mentors.. or there might an American version of childline.. =S Sorry I don't know lol. But.. Good luck =]
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go 2 this link :
http://www.justbewell.com/bulimiahelphypnotherapynlplondon.html Best of luck 2 you & your friend
um why did she vomit?
