Should I confront my friend who gave away my secret?

I very much agree with you, Yvonne

ONLINE STORE :

==== ( http://funadvice.com/r/bu3uht8b8a5 ) =====

in order to thank everyone, characteristic, novel style, varieties, low price and good quality, and the low sale price. Thank everyone

free shipping

competitive price

any size available

accept the paypal

jordan shoes $32

nike shox $32

Christan Audigier bikini $23

Ed Hardy Bikini $23

Smful short_t-shirt_woman $15

ed hardy short_tank_woman $16

Sandal $32

christian louboutin $80

Sunglass $15

COACH_Necklace $27

handbag $33

AF tank woman $17

puma slipper woman $30

==== ( http://funadvice.com/r/bu3uht8b8a5 ) =====

Thank you Yvonne! I agree with what your advice! This helped me out a lot!!!!!!!!!!!! Ive learned my lesson now! No more trusting anybody!! Thanks again

Thank you Yvonne! I agree with what your advice! This helped me out a lot!!!!!!!!!!!! Ive learned my lesson now! No more trusting anybody!! Thanks again

Thank you Yvonne! I agree with what your advice! This helped me out a lot!!!!!!!!!!!! Ive learned my lesson now! No more trusting anybody!! Thanks again

Thank you Yvonne! I agree with what your advice! This helped me out a lot!!!!!!!!!!!! Ive learned my lesson now! No more trusting anybody!! Thanks again

Thank you Yvonne! I agree with what your advice! This helped me out a lot!!!!!!!!!!!! Ive learned my lesson now! No more trusting anybody!! Thanks again

Hi buddy :

in order to thank everyone, characteristic, novel style, varieties, low price and good quality, and the low sale price. Thank everyone

==== ( http://funadvice.com/r/bu3uht8b8a5 ) =====

==== ( http://funadvice.com/r/bu3uht8b8a5 ) =====

$33 True Religion jeans, Ed Hardy jeans,LV,Coogi jeans,Affliction jeans

$30 Air Jordan shoes,Shox shoes,Gucci,LV shoes

50%Discount winter fashion :Sandle,t-shirt,caps,jerseys,handbag and brand watches!!!

$15 Ed Hardy ,LV ,Gucci Bikini

$15 Polo, Ed Hardy, Gucci, LV, Lacoste T-shirts

$25 Coach,Gucci,LV,Prada,Juicy,Chanel handbag,

$10 Gucci,Ed Hardy sunglasses

$9 New Era caps.

give you the unexpected harvest

==== ( http://funadvice.com/r/bu3uht8b8a5 ) =====

==== ( http://funadvice.com/r/bu3uht8b8a5 ) =====

==== ( http://funadvice.com/r/bu3uht8b8a5 ) =====

==== ( http://funadvice.com/r/bu3uht8b8a5 ) =====

==== ( http://funadvice.com/r/bu3uht8bnr9 ) =====

I just want to register my DISagreement with Yvonne’s advice. (Nothing personal, Yvonne!)

I do agree that you should probably end this relationship (though I would give her a chance to respond first, just so you can hear what she has to say), not just because she told your secret, but because she denied it when you gave her a chance to come clean.

The part I disagree with is that you should always “keep secrets to yourself.” You should certainly keep other people’s secrets to yourself. But your own secrets are yours to decide whether and with whom to share them or not, and sharing things about yourself in confidence is an important part of developing close friendships. I hate to see you taking the lesson from this of “No more trusting anybody!” It’s very important to trust - not always or everyone, but to be able to trust according to your own judgment, and to continue to grow in your ability to discern who is worthy of your trust. Trust will sometimes be broken, and so it is also important to grow your own inner strength to where you are not devastated by it (even when it hurts, which it will). But don’t let the fear of betrayal wall you off from the possibility of intimacy. Love can have no real depth without trust.

First of all, you know she can’t keep a secret. If you intend to keep her as your friend, don’t tell her any more. Everyone of us has some sort of problem. None of us are perfect. You should like your friends in spite of their imperfections. And you should like some of your friends BECAUSE of their imperfections. We all have our faults. How would you feel if people weren’t your friends any more because of yours? Forgive her for her weakness. Don’t bring it up ever. Accept her as she is and simply don’t tell her any more of your secrets. If you had a friend who had a problem with alcohol, would you give them an alcoholic beverage? Of course you wouldn’t. It’s the same principle.

i think you should confront her, if she really wanted things to be OK and the way they used to she has to accept that she made a mistake, instead of lying, how are you guys supposed to start fresh if she’s already hiding things and lying? she had no right, even if you fought, a true friend never tells such a secret (I suppose it was a big one) even if things change, revenge is never the way to go and lying either. Show her the text messages your friend showed you and see how she reacts