how can i make fingering and eating my girlfriend out bettter for her? she likes it better than actual sex. help. details please?

Answer #1

Variation. It’s all in variation. Oh - and build up. Dont finger her straight away….start stroking her legs…then move onto her thighs…then gently brush her vagina…….kiss her neck as well as her lips…turn her on…and when you know she’s turned on - get your fingers in there. Then, start slowly at the g-spot, thrust your fingers in harder as you go along…then move up to the clitoris….do it slowly….then increase in speed….listen to her reactions. As for eating her out….basically do the same…..stroker her legs first…then her vagina…then breathe lightly on her vagina - it’ll make her horny like mad!! then…..slowly part her v.lips and lick slowly….then suck lightly on her clit….then start to lick…..faster…..faster….faster - she should basically be fucking your tongue if you’re doing it right (: Hope that helped. xx

Answer #2

okay. i’ll try. thank you!

Answer #3

okay. i’ll try. thank you!

Answer #4

Lead up just like that, but eventually she’s going to want you to dig your face into your groin. Wrap your lips around her clitoris, suck it up into your mouth and lick it with the tip of your tongue. Do that for a minute and stick your tongue out flat onto her clit, push down hard (but not with your teeth) and start shaking your head as hard as you can, while pressing your fingers firmly up against the top of her vagina about two inches in.

Honestly, I find that if your literally making her ass lift up off the bed with how rough you’re being then she’s having the most fun.

Then again you may hurt her, but I do this to my fiance (who happens to be very susceptible to pain) and she loves it.

Answer #5

the fingering and licking are all about variation, what i do is slide 1 or 2 fingers in and out slowly while licking the clit softly, then change to fingering hard and fast while still licking softly but fast, then start moving your finger around inside her (not too rough) and suck the clit the same time as licking it. and then change again to rubbing the clit with your thumb or finger while licking the hole and dipping your tounge inside, just try different ways and different speeds and pressures, be careful not to be too rough though you dont want to hurt her. you can also try getting other things involved like ice cubes, lick them first so they are wet and slippery then you can start by sliding the ice cube down her neck and around her nipples, then carry on down her tummy to her clit, rub it around her clit for abit while kissing and caressing her at the same time, then you could even try sliding it inside her. trust me, amazing things are possible with ice cubes, but be careful because not all girls like it, some girls are very sensitive and cant take it and some girls just find it strange, but most girls i’ve done it to have amazing orgasms. maybe try suggesting it 1st to see what she thinks of the idea.

good luck and all the best to you and her :-)

Answer #6

oh and yes there obviously has to be a build up, just like the woman above suggested

Answer #7

thanks!

Answer #8

true story ;)

Answer #9

yes

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