ok well heres the deal, im already in counceling and thier mad at me for tht they say i was raised better and i embaress them bc i have to go to councling. its so hard to get through to them that yelling at me for evry little thing i do isnt going to make me respect them, they do "emotional blackmail" where they will get mad at me and say " we took you in and fed you and gave u clothes and this is how u repay us??" (im adopted) at first it would make me cry cuz i felt bad but they do it so often it really has no effect anymore :/ and when its time for family counceling they never show up and the one time they did they aegued with my councler that he didnt know anything and thier way is best. they argue all the time and mostly its about me my mom comes home and is in a pissy mood bc she has to cook and do laundry like every body in america has to do so idk what her problem is and then my dad just hates everything nothing makes him happy, and they will argue off n on all night and then theyll decide its my fault and lecture me for a good two hrs, im not allowed to do anything the tv is locked if its rated pg13 and above (keep in mind im turning 17 in two months) computer has parentl control on it and they check my grades and phone record nightly i dont go anywhere or do anything and id the rare opportunity comes tht i do go out when they pick me up they treat me like they just bailed me out of jail! they constantly compair me to other kids like " why cant u be like her or why cant u make the grades like this person does" one time my mom asked me why i cant be normal tht hurt i could go on and tell much more but im sure u herd enough srry i vented there a little bit :3 but i just wanted to fill u in on what they r really like befor u say parents kbow best and r always right n stuff....i dont like being adopted i wanna be with my real parents but tht cant happen bc my real parents dont want me..so i guess im stuck here :(
I think whenever it comes to arguing with parents, no matter what the situation is even if you think they're wrong, let them win. When you win, you get no where. Just apologize & agree with them till you're 18. Make it easier for them.
Consider Family Counseling, seek wisdom from someone well-respected that you can trust, or consult your minister....
i put detail but it didnt show up for some reason,
ask for forgiveness parents knows best
More detail would probably help.