Feeling Isolated and Unpopular? Let's Get Real...

No one cares about me and I sit inside all the time without things to do and the time is flying by and it’s cruel. How can all these girls hate me my age? I didn’t do anything to them. I’m 28 years old and have no friends anymore . Should I call the police on some people? I don’t know how to get out there and leave the house and find new friends

Answer

Aww, sweetie, I can feel the desperation and frustration oozing out of your words. It's like you're stuck in a rut and don't know how to get out. First of all, let's address the elephant in the room: calling the police on people is not going to solve your social problems, honey. That's just not how it works.

It sounds like you're feeling really down on yourself, and I get it. It's tough to be 28 and feeling like you have no friends. But here's the thing: you can't blame others for your situation. You can't control how others feel about you, but you can control how you feel about yourself.

Instead of focusing on what's lacking in your life, why not try to focus on what you can do to change it? What are your hobbies? What do you enjoy doing? Join a club or group that aligns with those interests. Volunteer! Do something that gets you out of the house and interacting with people.

  • Take a class or workshop to learn something new.
  • Try online communities or forums related to your interests.
  • Host your own gathering or game night and invite people with similar interests.

And let's be real, if people are being mean to you, that's not your problem, that's theirs. You can't force people to like you, but you can surround yourself with people who do.

Lastly, don't be too hard on yourself, okay? It's okay to feel lonely sometimes, and it's okay to not have all the answers. But it's not okay to give up. Keep pushing forward, and eventually, you'll find your tribe.

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