How do you feel about girls/women trying to trap their boyfriend or husband by getting pregnant?

I think having a baby not for the reason, to give more love is wrong.Not to make someone love them

thats so wrong in so many ways. first, someone shouldnt need to trap a guy or trick him into staying in a relationship that apparently he doesnt want. second, people should give birth out of love and not used like that. as azza k said its the lowest thing a person can do.

I find it disgusting. I honestly have no respect for any women who forces parenthood on anyone. And then they complain when the father is absent and doesn’t show any interest in the child.

I FEEL EVEN AFTER THAT HE STILL HAS THE CHOSE TO LEAVE OR STAY AND EVEN SO IF ITS WORKS ITS NOT GOING TO WORK OUT FOR THEM

I FEEL EVEN AFTER THAT HE STILL HAS THE CHOSE TO LEAVE OR STAY AND EVEN SO IF ITS WORKS ITS NOT GOING TO WORK OUT FOR THEM

Its horrible to do and wont fix the problem in their relationship. Just make it worse. Why would you want to put smeone you “love” through hell. I tried to stay with mty baby daddy for the baby and it only made it worse on us and the baby.

This actually just happened to my friend, which he doesn’t believe it, But I sure do think, that she did it just to have control over him the rest of his life. & he doesn’t even know if it;s rly his yet. She’s crazy though, it’s a messed up situation! Makes me sick.

Selfish

Anyone who cared about their children could not not do this. For a child to be brought into the world for such selfish reasons is purely destructive to the child..

i hate it wehn people do things like that just they can control another person or have power them. i personally would never do something like this because i find it totally messed up and manipulative

I agree, that could end up as the most unhealthy relationship. I’ve had that idea cross my mind a year ago with the guy I was with, but then I met someone better. I guess you could call him my second choice.

I agree, that could end up as the most unhealthy relationship. I’ve had that idea cross my mind a year ago with the guy I was with, but then I met someone better. I guess you could call him my second chance

Usually, if the man doesnt want to be in the relationship, he still wont reguardless of if the woman is pregnant or not. He may be there for the baby, but if hes unhappy, hes bound to walk away sometime. baby or no baby.

Usually, if the man doesnt want to be in the relationship, he still wont reguardless of if the woman is pregnant or not. He may be there for the baby, but if hes unhappy, hes bound to walk away sometime. baby or no baby.

its not right

For me i just dont agree with it.and most of the time they spilt anu way and if the girl or women dose give birts the boyfriend or husband still takes care cause its his child.its so not fair cause the person probley doesnt like or love the other like they use to.hope i help can you help me with my question? [link removed]

For me i just dont agree with it.and most of the time they spilt anu way and if the girl or women dose give birts the boyfriend or husband still takes care cause its his child.its so not fair cause the person probley doesnt like or love the other like they use to.hope i help can you help me with my question? [link removed]

How do I feel about a woman trapping a man by getting pregnant OR how do I feel about a man not wearing a condom and putting himself in that situation? Please clarify.

I believe it takes alot of “balls” if you will. Seriously not only is something that breaks all trust in the relationship but your choosing to bear a child which you may or may not be prepared to take care of. I believe its selfish towards the unborn child to bring them in this world in those conditions and its not fair to guy if he is the one choosing to wait to have a child and being mature. Also on another note most people think that babies bring people together but taking care of a child is full time work and only seperates you even more. Hence why you should wait until after you marry someone to have children. You know they love you and you know that you can get through the rough spots of raising a child.