If a relative of yours have said that you are slow, meaning mentally challenged, you're ugly, stupid, you can't comprehend, would you feel comfortable being in the presence of this person again? Although I don't deal with this now, from this relative when I happen to see them from time to time at other family members house, I will walk out of the room or just leave to avoid this person. I still feel very uncomfortable being around this person because of how negatively they see me. Would you feel the same way?
Am I in the wrong for not wanting to have anything to do with relative because they are family?
That is really rude but if the person you are talking about was joking then its a joke but if not then i wouldnt be comfortable in that person's presense.i mean who are they to say rude things about others.family is a family but you have feelings and that person did hurt you.
I would never be comfortable around that person.but why did that person say that? though you must'nt reply rudely.you should of told that person that he is elder or not but doesnt have a right to say that it hurts feelings.try to fix things with that person and if that person is judging and keeps it up then you should avoid him/her and ignore them in a way thats okay with.things like these may occur in big families.don't mess up.good luck!
No you should of told me he is your brother you were talking about.i thought that this person you were talking about is your far relative that lives far that you dont see so much.between brothers and sisters it is normal to urgue over things but i disagree the bad things he says like mentally chalenged or ugly.you should talk to your parents about it.and let him know that the way he behaves you with really hurts you.he is your brother he will understand i hope.Because walking away just doesnt solve the problem talking about it with parents would be the right thing.
First of all, this is my brother that I am speaking about. And I never said nor did anything to disrespect him. He is just a hateful person who has something against me because I don't live my life a way that he sees as "normal." that is why he is so hateful towards me.