I feel like a horrible person for feeling this way...

I say that you should concentrate on your current relationship. Why are you even thinking if girls will still want you in the future? Do you already see your current relationship falling apart? I hope not, you just got into it! But if you don’t feel that it’s right for you, then it’s a good idea to talk this out with your partner. It may also be good to hear some stories from your partner about how he managed to start out dating guys. If you don’t think that it’s for you and you prefer girls more, then gently break it up, and be honest about it.

I want to note that nobody’s going to care about your orientation in the grand scheme of things, you are you. People will either like you for your personality or they won’t. I understand that your orientation can sometimes affect others’ views on you, but seriously, why should you care, unless it’s a future employer or something? So don’t think that people will look down on you, just because you’re bi. If they look down on you, they are plain ignorant people.

You have to learn to be happy with who you are, and what you do. In the end, your confidence is all that matters. People will respect you, because you know what you want in life. A lot of people still don’t know what to do with their life.

You’re not a horrible person… Do you know how many non-straight people have an issue with who they are? The way society stigmatizes people who are not heterosexual, it’s not exactly a surprise people have these feelings… Oh and yeah I know what you mean, life would be so much simpler being straight… And I cant deny that… All I can say is, there really is truly nothing wrong with being in a relatioship with someone of the same sex. Society sucks, people are idiots, and at the end of the day it should not matter who you love… This is something you’re going to have to figure out yourself though… You need to try and make yourself as happy as possible… No one wants to face discrimination, but is that worth giving up being in a relationship with someone you truly care about? Only you can decide what the best choice for you is…

I will say one thing though, yes some girls will care that you’ve been in a relationship with a guy, but some wont… You dont need to be with someone who is narrow minded and judgmental anyways…

You have your whole life ahead of you to deal with this stuff… you dont need to put yourself in a little box right now…

Like mysterywolf said, you might want to talk to someone about being gay… I dont know if your partner is necessarily the best choice, it depends on your relationship… but you definitely want to make some gay/bi friends and discuss it with them… and remember, you’re definitely not alone in the way you feel, so dont let anyone make you feel bad for the feelings you’re having… you’re allowed to be scared, confused and unsure… just try and keep in mind, there is truly nothing wrong with who you are