I'm going to live with my mother, but i don't know how to tell my dad. I love him, but not enough to deal with his wife's constant abuse. I don't want to make him think I don't love him anymore though. How do i tell him?
Tell him you have something important you need to talk with him privately about, and ask when would be a good time for him. Make sure it's when his wife won't be around, and that you'll both be available for as much time as you might need. Don't worry too much ahead of time about finding the "right way" to tell him. It's ok if you sort of stumble into it awkwardly at the beginning. Pretty soon the words will come, and you'll do fine. Talk with him, too, about how and when you'll be able to see him and keep in touch between visits when you're living with your mother. I wish you well with your new decision, Andrew.
You sit down and explain your situation to him so that he fully understand's where your heart is.
get leaked from the door and tell him when you come back and apologize if he say something ;)
pick a piece of paper and write it down and put it on the dining table and go away
make him a nice meal nd with ur heart tell him nd stay with him for a whille
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