Should I wear a 2-piece to my pool party if I feel fat?

Wear what you like - if friends are telling you that, they’re not true friends - 104 pds and they don’t want to be seen with you in a 1 piece !?

When I was growing up, you would not believe the torture I endured because I was only 98 pounds up to high school. Yes, believe it or not, you can be rediculed for being skinny! Well, I used to go home and cry about it. My mother told me something that I have passed on to my daughter, and it does work. She said “Don’t worry about what other people think or say, worry about yourself because what you think is the only thing that matters.”

Don’t wear the 2 piece because the others want you to. Wear if YOU want to. And if you do not want to, you do not have to. Do things to PLEASE you, not everyone else.

Hun, you’re NOT fat. You weigh less than me and you’re an inch taller! Stop focusing on what someone will think. When you radiate confidence is when you won’t think you’re fat and when others will see you at your finest. I always think I’m fat too, but I’m not. Perhaps it isn’t that you think you’re fat, but maybe that your stomach is not perfectly flat. I’m sure the 2 piece will look gorgeous on you. Have fun at the pool party!

wear whatever makes you feel comfortable. I would wear a 2 peice, but wear one that you don’t feel uncomfortable in.

cmw4562 has given you some excellent advice. If you spend all your time worrying about what you like it in a bathing suit, you will not have any fun. Relax, and wear which bathing suit YOU want to. A pool party is always fun and it usually turns out that no one remembers what anyone was wearing because everyone had so much fun. If your friends won’t come because of something you will or will not wear, let them be miserable and hot while you are relaxed, cool and enjoying the pool.

“oh my god you are not fat you are so skinny” where what you want! i agree

I promise ur not fat…

are you insane. if you are 5 ft 3, and 104 lbs, you are skinny, I am 5ft 1, and 115 lbs and I wear a bikini all the time, you have a serious problem if you think your fat, and im not joking

first, you’re so skinnny! second, your bmi is 18.4 which means you’re underweight. last off, wear what you want to wear;your friends will come even if you’re wearing a one piece, and if they don’t they’re not true friends.

BMI Categories:

Underweight = <18.5 Normal weight = 18.5-24.9 Overweight = 25-29.9 Obesity = BMI of 30 or greater

I calculated your BMI according to the info you gave me and your BMI is 18.4 which puts you in the underweight category. What you need to do is start putting on a few pounds rather than aiming to loose them.

The only way you can feel good about yourself is by if you can learn to love who you are for what you are, not the size or weight that you are. You also need to stop comparing your self to others if that is what you do in terms of weight/size, i have noticed that alot of people i know who are parnoid about their weight tend to comapre themselves with others. But what you need to remember is that eveyrone has a different body shape example, you can weigh the same yet one of you will either be slimmer or bigger because it depends on your height, bodyshape etc

However, being slim or fat does not make you beautiful or attractive it is the value of self-worth and self-respect from within that attracts you to others. (This is my own opinion and i mean no offense to anyone who reads this).

Stop worrying and enjoy yourself Wear what you Choose to wear, not what others choose to see you wear.

Hope that was helpful enough.