Family help

dude this one is tough but I think I know how I can help you look she really is looking up on you and he drinking and smokin g and the dooing drugs man well it does make you fell rotten. first thing I know smoking is bad for cancer bla bla bla bla and drinking is bad for your liver bla bla bla bla but well drugs …they are just awful period! dont think im telling you to stop doing drugs I mean its your life but my 3 tips are (1)take it easy on the drink (2)try not smoking to much in front of her and last try to stop those drugs they are bad and you konw that deep inside there take care and gooo luck with your niece.

it sounds like she’s at an age where morality is very clear cut… things are black or white… smoke = bad person… it is hard for her to understand that doing something wrong (e.g. doing drugs) does not make a person bad… she’ll grow out of it and eventually learn to be more flexible in her thinking… in the meanwhile, dont feel too awful about it, and definitely dont tell her you do drugs… (I would stay away from the alcohol part too), you might want to talk to her parents about what their preferred method of dealing with it is…

Aww =( Tell her it was a stupid and horrible mistake you made.