Is it okay to fall for your best guy friend?

I would like to know if it’s okay to start falling for your best guy friend. What should i do? Should i tell him? I’m afraid because i don’t want him to feel awkward, because that will also make me feel awkard.

Help?

Answer #1

:O I’m having this problem right now! My guy friend somehow found out but he was really good about it . Maybe, depending on his relationship status, just ask to talk to him for a minute and say that you like him but that there’s no pressure and you’d be happy to stay friends even if nothing else happens. I hope that helps :)

Answer #2

There are pros and cons to this. The pro is: You guys know each other very well, and get along great. You won’t hesitate to tell each other things if a relationship does start. And best friends, make great relationships, unless: (here comes the con) Having relationships with a friend can make things awkward, because if you ever happen to break up, it’ll may never be the same. Your mutual friends will split up and take sides (to avoid tension). And you may not be able to look at each other as friends anymore once you cross that line. Ask yourself what you want to do, but do consider the positive and negatives.

Answer #3

Thanks! great help :)

Answer #4

lol, irony..i new my best guy friend for 6 years and just recently he asked me out after a long debate with his friends that i new about and wasnt suposed to ^.^ ive been going out with him for almost a month now and its weird but nice at the same time…the looks on my friends faces when we kiss..or like the other day in KFC he had a bhip in his mouth and offered me the other end so i took it and my friend stoped in midsentance and the other friend almost pukd I couldnt stop laugjing it was so funny ^.^ I think that because we’ve been friend for such a long time we ahve been really close …^.^ were best friends soul mates and lovers ^.^

Answer #5

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Answer #6

I was the same way knew him since i was 9 and was my best friend and we talked and eventually we both realized we loved each other so we started dating and we have been together for 6 months!

Answer #7

wow… congrats! :)

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