Ok so I'm 16.. I sext ALOT. I've been doing it since I was 13 after I lost my virginity... Guys always tell me I'm beautiful and hot and sexy and they always get pics or some even get the dirty..(I've only done the dirty like 9 xs in my life ... Im still super tight. Actually :) ). Now I don't go for guys my age.. Nothing under 18. Idk y I jus dnt. I'm always asked for pics, videos, or the dirty.. I don't understand y. I do respect myself.. I feel fugly 99.9% of the time I look in the mirror but I do respect myself.. How can I get a guy to like me for me without them asking for pics or whatever? And why do guys always ask for that stuff?? It hurts:/
Okay first off, you don't respect yourself. You are letting these men in your life treat you like a doormat. The reason they always ask for those texts or to hookup is because they know you'll give it to them. Why would they go through all the trouble of dating you and getting to know you when they can just get what they want (hooking up) for free? You are so young! You need to slow down. Have you ever even been to the gynecologist yet? You should get tested for STDs. Based on your other post, i know you have been having unprotected sex. Have you even considered the fact that you can get a disease that will stay with your forever (herpes) or a disease that is life threatening like AIDS? I don't understand why you just bend over backwards for these guys to use and abuse you and get you pregnant and just let them hookup with you. Could you really see yourself as a mother? Caring for someone else entirely other than yourself? Because the only thing on your mind are these men who couldn't care less about how you feel. Sorry this is so long, but I really just don't get it. Where are your parents??? Don't you have anyone to teach you any morals??? It's your life, you can do what makes you happy, but it's obvious that you aren't happy....
well dident you say the guys always get pics? like you always send pictures?? i think you give off the wrong impression like your an easy girl.... and thats why they always ask for that kinda stuff cause you either give off the imperession your that kinda girl or your just not meeting the right kinda guys....i think how you get guys to like you for you is to not give it up so easy dont sext or send any pictures your not gonna get anything serious by doing that your gonna get the wrong kinda guys.... give it time i think you should only do those things if you have been with a guy for a very long time..
Guys ask for that stuff because you're easy, nothing to it. You're easy so they just expect the dirty stuff and nothing else from you. Certainly nothing on an emotional level. Learn to respect yourself and then maybe, just maybe, some guy will too. So are you expecting too much? Yep, if you're easy, that's all boys will want from you.