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So, me and my ex have been through a lot, and well recently (2 months ago I think) he started going out with another girl, I am completely devastated and I don`t really know how to cope, I still have a lot of feelings for him so its really hard. Please give me some help or ideas or something! Thank you so much.
Sweetie, trust me, I totally know how that feels. My ex broke up with me a year ago after a long, long time of dating and I was falling apart. I laid in bed all day, I never ate, I was always crying...I couldnt get on with my life and I definatly dont want that for you. I hate to say it but second go arounds usually never work out. And your young and are totally capable of finding someone else! It took awile but now I have someone who loves me very much:)
It's time to move on. Do things to get your head around what has happened and to get your mind off of things.
-Hang out with friends -Shopping -Get a new look, style, haircut, or makeover -Have an old fashioned slumber party with your friends -Lots of icecream! -Write down your feelings - it's better to get them out then keep them inside.
Overall you have to remember that healing takes time. Don't worry though - you will get over it.