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Do I last too long? Am I too big?

I know this is going to sound like a ridiculous claim to boost my confidence or something of that sort, but I assure you it is not. I am 17 and the first time my girlfriend and I had sex, she told me I was huge and maybe a little too big. The next time we had sex she wanted too measure it and she told me it was about 7 inches. I know for a fact, for most women, that seven isn’t too big. Additionally, on our first time, I lasted about an hour and a half while she claims she climaxed three times. At first I thought that was awesome, but know its getting to be a problem. As of late, shes only been able to last about forty five minutes before she says she is in too much pain or too tired to continue, leaving me blue-balled. Sometimes I can finish before than but when I don’t I pay the price. I’m certainly proud of my endurance, but know that its a problem, I’m not sure what to do about it. Any suggestions?

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Answer #1

Okay, thanks for the help beth. I may look into that. But I have one more question, At this point in my life, the only girl I have had sex with has been my girlfriend (we’ve been dating since I was 14) so I’m not sure what most girls are like. Can most women last as long I can or will this continue to be a problem?

Answer #2

Maybe, but even if I was I dont think thats the problem. She just climaxes several times before I do, and if girls are anything like guys, then I can see why she gets tired.

Answer #3

First you need to tackle the pain problem. If you’re girlfreind is getting used to sex ( and even if she’s not) it can be quite painfull. Here’s some tips on how to reduce pain; -Lots of foreplay to get her naturally exited -Lubication, Durex Play is big in England dont know about were you come from -Start in the missioary position in order for it to not be too sharp and hard for her -Ask her what she wants- the most important one of all!

Next the problem of lasting “too” long. There’s many things on the market that can help with that sort of thing. C*ck rings can make some people last longer or not long at all, depends but its worth a try. A recomend visting a shop such as Anne Summers or Pabo who specialise in those materials. Again with this one communication is always a good idea, positions and tricks you both like.

Answer #4

Maybe you’re too rough?

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