Depressed over miscarriage.

I am very sorry about your miscarriage. You are dealing with hormones out of whack now from the pregnancy. Remember - that is normal. It may last a few weeks and it is a roller coaster of emotions, like pregnany. This is an opportunity for you to pick up the pieces and get your life together. Also, there is absolutely NO REASON for you to be having unprotected sex, or any at all for that matter. You need to go to school for the next 8 years and get a decent job so you can actually provide a home, food, clothes, etc. for your child. I am sorry if this sounds harsh, but I am 32 years old and I just had my first baby last year. I am married, stable job, own a home, etc and until you are most of the way here you really shouldn’t be trying to get pregnant because even with everything I have done to prepare IT STILL IS NOT EASY all the time. It is unfair to you and VERY unfair to a baby and I can tell you first hand that anyone I know who got pregnant too young had a very difficult life. Try to join some sports, find something you like to do and ENJOY THE BEST YEARS LIFE. Have fun. Soon enough you will have a family, on your own terms. You have your whole life ahead of you. Enjoy.

id say get a new pet because a friend of mine did that but its not a sure thing

anytime the thought of having kids pops into my head I always ask my brother to babysit his 3 boys for awhile and it helps me see what its like to have a baby

thats one thing you cant undo and you know youll regret it

maybe you need to find something else to focus on?

It’s not one of those things that you’ll get able to get over - but you have to let yourself move on from this. Trying for a child right now would just be irresponsible and will make everything worse. You should probley go on birth control right away because I have a feeling you’ll continue unprotected sex.

I’d stay focused and concentrate in an excellent plan: education, ring, date, marriage, get financially stable, then your baby…I wish you every happiness !!

you need therapy sweetheart, a miscarriage is a traumatic experience, especially for a young girl. You can go to a professional therapist through your insurance. I think that is the number one thing for you to do.

it’s something you’ll live with forever. you won’t completely get over it… but it’s one of those things that is supposed to get better with time.

I know from experience that it’s hard to lose a baby, I was also 15 when I lost mine. You can’t really “get over it” but you can move on from it. Talking helps a lot. Find a therapist or counselor to talk to, it will help. Wanting to have another baby right away is normal but you have to be strong and realize that you’re probably not ready to have one. I felt the same way. You’re feeling this way because of your loss, it’s natural. Getting pregnant again will not take away your pain. If anything it will only make your life more complicated. Try to stay strong, the pain you’re feeling eases over time.

Good luck